Matriarchy ?

@BlueMetalChick: A person's core nature expresses itself in the sexual realm through different sexual desires.
Men want to worship the female by tending to her physical and sexual needs and men want to be made into a domesticated servant to their wives. But the common thread to all these sexual and submissive desires is the longing for loving female authority. To me, that is the true definition of Female Domination. Female Domination is Loving Female Authority. That is what most men want and need. All these specific fetishes or desires are the outward expressions of a man's need for loving female authority.
It matters not how these desires are expressed through different fantasies. The root and the core of these are all the same. Namely, the desire of the male gender is to be dominated and ruled by the female gender. Therefore, no expression of this submissive nature surprises me or shocks me.
What else would explain a man's desire to be on the bottom during intercourse today ?

@BoldSam: Sexuality is a tiny, depraved, unimportant corner of the human mind. Someone's core nature is unable to be judged through their sexuality. It's like trying to form an opinion on someone's morality based on their hair color.

"Men want to worship the female by tending to her physical and sexual needs and men want to be made into a domesticated servant to their wives."
Uh...no they don't. Men don't want that.

"But the common thread to all these sexual and submissive desires is the longing for loving female authority."
No it isn't. Because they don't want that.

"Female Domination is Loving Female Authority."
No it isn't. It's the exact same thing as male dominance. It's wrong. It's mistreating someone else for no reason.

"All these specific fetishes or desires are the outward expressions of a man's need for loving female authority."
Except that there are none of those. Save for the ones you decided to make up yourself.

"Namely, the desire of the male gender is to be dominated and ruled by the female gender."
Which don't exist, except inside your mind. There are no "desires of the male gender to be dominated." You just made that up.

"What else would explain a man's desire to be on the bottom during intercourse today?"
Mostly the fact that they don't. Since when do men have a desire to be on the bottom during sex? Since, uh, never.

@BlueMetalChick: You just need to analyze the behavior of the men which you are referring to ..
We naturally engage communicated thoughts as they are received, evaluating and judging them for their correctness, relevance, and usefulness. In this process we tend to maintain a distance from most of what we hear, especially the commands of others. We are more likely to resist that which is not immediately confirmed by our own experience and to argue if pressed. Men are especially prone to this distancing approach to conversation. It is one reason why husbands interpret instructions from their wives as nagging.
When I hold a conversation with my 19 year old boyfriend as I stroke his penis there is behavioral conditioning associating my words with his sexual feelings and rewarding his compliance. But my impression, based on our conversations in the bedroom and subsequent interaction outside, is that something more is going on. Especially revealing have been my boyfriend's confessions to me.
In such a state of mind he is putty in your hands and unable or unwilling to resist the thoughts you communicate to him. Over time, repetition will make these thoughts his and he will not even care where they originated.
I prefer to let our conversations develop naturally based on my intuition about what issues may be obstructing our immediate progress, what our marriage might need at the particular moment. But, almost always, I have taken the opportunity to talk about obedience to my will and submission to my dominance as these are fundamental to everything else. I want my boyfriend to internalize the belief that regardless of the situation he can't go wrong if he simply obeys me and that whenever he is in doubt that he should seek me out for instruction.

@BlueMetalChick: You are right . However hardly few think in similar terms . May be I feel women has this gift .. or may be the strength to forgive . In that sense I feel that women are stronger than men . If we take the example of our own mothers , we can't really count how many times we might have hurt her but she always forgives and I believe only the strong minds can forgive . I haven't been in the position of those women who was suppressed , so I am not eligible to comment on their feelings . May be certain women develop hatred against men due to what they have already went through . Sadly we still have discrimination at various levels and when it comes to women I feel the women from rural areas are impacted more . Feminist movements are boosting only the high class city women and actually they are not the ones who are really suffering .

@Sandeep: Well, not in my case. My mother was a wine sodden heroin addict who spent her days stealing money from tourists, but she taught me well in at least one way, and that's important.

@BlueMetalChick: oh ! Sorry to hear this . May be it's the circumstances that make people choose a wrong way . Actually no one is bad . Hope she get rid of that bad habit soon . May be you can try to help her too . It would be interesting to know in which way you got benefited and what was your learning ...

@BoldSam My pleassure, lady!🌹

@CharlieZ Aww ..thank you 🤗

@BoldSam Your post on women being carried by their man moved my emotions.
Thank you.🤗

@AgapeLove You are right 👍️. It should involve a willful participation rather than abuse. Matriarch or feminism in no means advocates a world where males are reduced to the status of animals and obedient house pets.