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Matriarchy ?

Many men remained at home. Males reared children, cleaned the house, cooked meals.

After decades, men were servile. Obedience and humility were the primary masculine qualities.
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BlueMetalChick · 26-30, F
It's disgusting to want "obedience and humility" to be primary qualities of either gender. Nobody should be obedient or humble because of that. You should be proud, you should be strong, and you should beat the ever loving shit out of anyone who tells you otherwise.
BoldSam · 46-50, F
If people don't understand this behaviour and think I hate the male creature, they would be wrong. Women who are true believers in Female Supremacy must love the male creature or we would not train them to be what we want them to be. We love them and we rule them and we make them serve like the obedient creatures they are.
BlueMetalChick · 26-30, F
@BoldSam: "Female supremacy" is as stupid, ignorant, and wrong as "male supremacy" is. You do not rule a single other human being, and nobody serves you.
BoldSam · 46-50, F
Gentle, sweet female voices explained matriarchy. Faint, pretty melodies played in the background. Floral aromas replaced the disgusting odors.

Males’ genitals were pleasantly stimulated. Erections often accompanied positive reinforcement.

A very mild drug, periodically administered, made the men’s minds more malleable.

Some men responded surprisingly quickly. They joined the men who surrendered. Over time, more men were converted to ma
BlueMetalChick · 26-30, F
@BoldSam: You want to drug the world's male population and then seduce them into being obedient to you? Are you out of your fucking mind? This is the single stupidest thing I have ever heard.
BoldSam · 46-50, F
It's not the drugs but caring domination instead . Men always appear happy. Their faces reflect their joy in serving .
BlueMetalChick · 26-30, F
@BoldSam: There is no such thing as "caring domination." If you dominate, or desire to dominate, someone else, you do not care about them. It's not like it matters though because this isn't going to happen outside your fucked up little fantasy world.
BoldSam · 46-50, F
@BlueMetalChick: Caring domination do exist . It's hard to believe about that in a patriarchal world . In matriarchal society A
Man exists to obey woman. To simplify the golden rule for the lesser gender there are lists of commands and the proper response. No male should doubt what action is right.

Short sayings that reinforce male’s consciousness of humility ....Their luck in having superior beings to serve. There are aphorisms devoted to cleanliness, posture and facial expression.
They recite a collection of hymns and prayer to Women and Womankind. Men often hum favorite hymns while working. Praying is part of every morning. Singing is the last act before sleep.
ajoite · 51-55, F
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BlueMetalChick · 26-30, F
@BoldSam: Caring domination does not exist and never will. Any time one person dominates another, it is cruelty.

Why the fuck would man exist to obey woman? Have you no respect for your fellow human being? Have you no consideration for other people? Apparently not. The "golden rule" is to treat others as you wish them to treat you, not treat others like shit and expect them to serve you simply because you have an overinflated ego and you're an insecure piece of shit with no self confidence.

There is no "lesser gender". Men should not have humility. They should be proud, and so should women, but you should not be proud, you personally, because you want others to have no pride.

Reciting hymns and songs? You want them to praise you religiously? You have the most serous form of God complex I have ever seen. People owe you absolutely fucking nothing. Nobody in this world, man or woman, owes you a goddamn thing.
BoldSam · 46-50, F
@BlueMetalChick: Ghe point which you are failing to understand here is that FLR is not because men owe me something but because men desire to . The primary reason why we are seeing an evolution of FLR is due to the liberation of women and increasing percentage of men who are willing to come out of their fantasy world and being ready experience their desirable life in real world . The thought of female authority appeals to both sexes and all that was holding society back from moving toward female dominance was the reluctance of the female due to the programming of the patriarchal societal system. But now that women are becoming more liberated and dominant with each generation, those barriers are coming down and society is moving toward female authority. Men cannot resist dominant and confident women and deep down, most men want women to rule them with loving female authority. As a matter of fact, the ever-growing submissive desires within men are outpacing the ever-growing dominant desires of women. Women are still restrained by traditions and societal expectations. Women naturally dominate men within the marriage relationship but not many women like to acknowledge that fact for fear of being outcast by family and society. Some women still allow their husbands to appear as the in charge and dominant partner in order to conform to the model of what they witnessed from their parents. But as women become more successful and more aggressive in the classroom and in the business world, women will more readily embrace their dominant persona and will gladly accept and even demand their male partner�s submission .
BlueMetalChick · 26-30, F
@BoldSam: That would make some kind of sense if it were true but men don't desire that. You're not seeing "the evolution of FLR" because it's not evolving. It's an idea held dear by a small fucked up little community of people like you. You're the ones not living in the real world. The rest of the world is here. You're way the hell somewhere else fantasizing about dominating people in relationships on a worldwide scale. The thought of female authority appeals to no one, just as the thought of male authority is equally reviling.

"Men cannot resist confident and dominant women."
Never was there a statement so far from the truth. Men don't want confident and dominant women because they want to be confident and dominant too to satisfy their own insecurities and desperation, and they want to be the dominant ones. You're doing exactly what they're doing.
BoldSam · 46-50, F
@BlueMetalChick: Think logically . A lot of very successful men find out that their lives are still not fulfilling, even after they have succeeded in business or their chosen profession. The more prosperous and powerful a man becomes, the more his weakness is magnified. A lot of men walk around thinking that if they only had more money or success, all would be well. The men that have the money and the success realize that these can not satisfy them emotionally, socially, and spiritually. Successful men have the resources to explore their submissive desires at a greater length then does the average middle class male. Regardless of a male's financial and social status, the desire is still there to submit to the female gender. This just goes to show further that the desire to submit is present within all men and economical and social factors do not play a major role in the development of these desires. A man's childhood and his interactions with female authority figures when he is a child and an adolescent, plays the biggest role in the development of that submissive seed that I believe is present within all males.
BlueMetalChick · 26-30, F
@BoldSam: If they aren't fulfilled despite clear success, then something must be wrong with them. They are probably too emotionally needy and sensitive.

You need to take your own advice and think logically. Read that second point to yourself and see if it makes any sense whatsoever. "The more prosperous and powerful a man becomes, the more his weakness is magnified." That's like saying "The hotter you heat your pizza, the colder it gets." The more powerful someone becomes, the less weak they become. Because power and weakness are opposites.

People who fail to be satisfied through money, success, stability, fun, and friendship and seek emotional and spiritual things are idiots to begin with, and so are women who feel that way.

I can say with fair certainty that the vast majority of men have no intrinsic desire to submit to a woman, just as the vast majority of women have no intrinsic desire to submit to a man.
BoldSam · 46-50, F
@BlueMetalChick: What are you looking for in a man? How would you describe the perfect man? How about a man that would worship the ground that you walked on? A man that would focus his energy and his attention on you all of the time. A man that would treat you like a Queen, would pamper you, give you foot and body massages, and who would get more pleasure out of pleasuring you than receiving pleasure himself. How about a man that do whatever you told him to do, without arguing or complaining? A man that would not only do all of his chores like cutting the grass and washing the cars, but would also do housework, the laundry, the grocery shopping, and even the cooking. How about a man that would wine and dine you and shower you with gifts? A man that would not cop jealous attitudes whenever you talk with or spend time with another man. Above all, a man that would love you with all of his heart and who would view you as his Goddess.

Sounds like the perfect man, huh? Sounds almost too good to be true, doesn't it? A fantasy, a dream that naïve young girls have. Well, I am here to tell you that you can have such a relationship with such a man. As a matter of fact, you are probably already living with a man that has the potential to become this perfect man. You are already working with men like this and you pass men everyday who are like this. There are men everywhere that have the potential and even the desire to be this perfect man that I just described. The key is not where to find the perfect man but how to find the perfect man? The answer to this question lies within. You have the power to draw these men to you and to train them to be the perfect boyfriend, husband, and lover. You, as a female, hold the key.

Females have a power over men. It is within you and you just need to release it. If you will release this dominant female power within you, you will have men begging to serve you. This power can do wonders for you in life. Not only in your relationship, but also in your social life, in your career, and in every other area of your life. Right now in our society, men hold the positions of power and authority. However, they hold these positions by deceiving women into allowing them to be the dominant gender. The truth is that women are the superior gender and that once a woman unleashes her dominant power, no man will be able to stand up to her. Men become submissive and like little puppy dogs when they are confronted with a powerful woman. The good news is that you have this powerful woman on the inside and men desire to submit to her.

If you don't believe me, allow me to refresh your memory a little. I am now talking to women who are married or who were married before. Remember when you were dating? Remember how submissive your future husband was. Think back. Remember how he was so sweet and kind. Remember how he use to bring you flowers? He would do whatever you wanted to do and go wherever you wanted to go. Remember that? Remember how much you loved him then? Let me ask you this. What changed? Once you got marred, he changed, didn't he? He became selfish and he ignored you. He started to hang around his friends again or he watched television all the time. He started to refuse to go with you to visit your friends and family, didn't he? He refused to go with you shopping or to the places that he once loved to go along with you just to be near you. Everything became a fight and an argument, didn't it? The flowers and gifts stopped. He became cheap and tight with his money, didn't he? Then there is the sex. Sex use to last all night and be so exciting but now it has become boring and fast. Once he gets his sexual release, it's time to go to sleep. Forget about you. After all, bringing you to orgasm is too much work. What happened to the passion? What happened to the guy that you were dating?

What happened is that he is a typical male. What happened is that you didn't realize how you had him under your spell. Your female beauty and your sexuality had captured him and he fell for you. He would do anything for you back then. You probably didn't realize it at the time, but you were the dominant one and he was the submissive one during the courtship. You didn't have to know about Dominance and submission back then . Your sexual energy and female ways naturally caused him to become submissive toward you. For a short time, his macho ways and male pride was overcome by your female power. However, once the two of you got married or entered into a serious relationship, his male pride and societies ways caused him to become the dominant one and you surrendered that power and the spell was broken. Now he expected you to be the good little wife and he expected you to obey him. He started to call the shots and the euphoria was over, for the both of you.

Well I want to encourage you to get that power back. That power is still there within you. As a matter of fact, you only used a little of your sexuality and power during the courtship. There is much more power within you that if released, will not only bring back the man that you fell in love with, but will drive him into total submission to you. Not just him either, but all men will sense your female power and they will either desire to serve you or they will be afraid of you. So let me tell you how to release that Tigress within.

First of all, realize that you are a miracle made by God. Men are also miracles and they are beautiful and valuable creations made by God. Men are made in the image of God. However, Women are superior to them. Women are God's last and greatest creations. Women are beautiful, intelligent, and sexual. Women are kind, gentle, tender hearted, yet also strong and resourceful. So begin to see yourself as the superior female that you are. Feel good about yourself and cast off your former low self-image. God does not make junk and losers. God made you to be special and a winner.

God also made you to be in authority over men. God created Eve to be Adam's "helper". The word helper in the Bible is translated from the Hebrew word "ezer". That word means one who helps from a position of authority. It is the same word that is used to describe God in many scriptures that declare how God will help us. It is always from a position of strength and authority. That is the position the female has over the male. So no longer view yourself as a second-class citizen. You are a powerful creation and you are special.
ajoite · 51-55, F
@BoldSam: Can I butt in ? At what point do you think she sees herself as a second class citizen for being a woman, how incredibly patronising most of your post is. The fact that you are insinuating that the whole idea of feminism, which means equal means that the only way to go is men being subservient at all times. Why would anyone want to put a man through what women have gone through in the past. It's obviously your thing but you're ramming the way you want to live down other peoples throats and patronising them for not agreeing.
If it's ok with you I don't need a servant in my life
BlueMetalChick · 26-30, F
@ajoite: Of all the people on this Earth who know what oppression to women is, few know it as well as I do. Women are not allowed to go to school in my country. They're not allowed to drive a car, hold a job, own property, be in public with a male chaperone, vote (that doesn't really count cos nobody is allowed to vote), or be really anything other than property of their father to use to gain money off a marriage dower. Women are hanged, stoned, or even disemboweled for committing adultery or for being victims of rape. And yet, I know just as well as you or any other sane person, that the answer to this is not, and never will be, subjecting men to the same oppression. That's not the fucking answer.
BoldSam · 46-50, F
@ajoite: I request all ladies, please do not get offended by the concept of female dominance . Instead, look more closely at what is being expressed by the male gender.
If a woman will look closer, get over her prudish and self-righteous ways and examine the message more than the content, then she will gain an incredible insight into the male psyche.
The thing women must keep in mind about Female Domination is that men need it. It is almost always the man who will introduce the Female Domination lifestyle to the woman. A courageous man with submissive desires introduces Female Domination to his female partner. Why do men do this? It's because men desire and need to be in submission to women. No matter how hard society or religion tries to tell men differently, something deep inside of them yearns to surrender to a powerful woman. These desires grow stronger with age and men will spend countless hours dreaming and fantasizing about Female Domination. They will pursue these desires and struggle with these desires trying to come to terms with them but sadly they will not come to terms with them until they truly have a relationship with a woman that can explore these desires with him in a loving manner.
The other side of this dynamic is that women who embrace the dominant role and who allow their dominant nature to come out, end up absolutely loving this lifestyle. It never ceases to amaze me how many women who once were real hesitant about being dominant, end up loving it so much that they later say that they would never go back to being in submission to a man or only having traditional sex with a man. The Female Domination lifestyle is liberating to women and it is also liberating for men, as they now can fulfill that yearning within them. The Female Domination lifestyle can be a win/win relationship for both the woman and the man.
SW-User
@BlueMetalChick: I feel sorry for the situation that the women in your country is going through . It's the same case in most of the places . However hats off to your thought process . Even though you suffered you are never in the mode of a revenge and that defines greatness . I have seen many feminists who are man haters however women like you deserve to be respected . How good it would be if men and women are treated equally everywhere and the fact is both men and women are not complete without each other . Not only gender discrimination should fade away but also the gap between rich and poor and cast and races ...A world where every living being loved the other would be a great place to live in . Never change , dear friend ... your thinking is the one that should be weighted with diamonds !
BlueMetalChick · 26-30, F
@Sandeep: Oppression of someone because of their gender is not something that people do because they are men or because they are women. It is something they do because they are inhuman. If I were to wish the kind of torturous strife onto men because of what has been done to women where I once lived, I would be no better than they are. It is specifically because I know how tormenting it is that I wouldn't want that done to anyone. The solution to a problem is never to cause another problem.
SW-User
@BlueMetalChick: You are right . However hardly few think in similar terms . May be I feel women has this gift .. or may be the strength to forgive . In that sense I feel that women are stronger than men . If we take the example of our own mothers , we can't really count how many times we might have hurt her but she always forgives and I believe only the strong minds can forgive . I haven't been in the position of those women who was suppressed , so I am not eligible to comment on their feelings . May be certain women develop hatred against men due to what they have already went through . Sadly we still have discrimination at various levels and when it comes to women I feel the women from rural areas are impacted more . Feminist movements are boosting only the high class city women and actually they are not the ones who are really suffering .
BlueMetalChick · 26-30, F
@Sandeep: Well, not in my case. My mother was a wine sodden heroin addict who spent her days stealing money from tourists, but she taught me well in at least one way, and that's important.
SW-User
@BlueMetalChick: oh ! Sorry to hear this . May be it's the circumstances that make people choose a wrong way . Actually no one is bad . Hope she get rid of that bad habit soon . May be you can try to help her too . It would be interesting to know in which way you got benefited and what was your learning ...