How oblivious can you be? So I’m trying to get rid of someone but this person simply won’t sto...

Why are you pussy-foot'n around, just rip the band-aid off for crying out loud. Stahp being passive-agressive. Guys are never going to "Read between the lines."

luckranger71 · 51-55, M

Block. Boundaries are boundaries.

Starcrossed · 41-45, F

If you've been direct "do not contact me again" and he does, do not respond and block.

exexec · 61-69, C

My wife is on this account with me, and she has experienced that problem at least twice. Ignoring him did not work. It just increased the frequency of messaging, so we blocked him. He showed up with a new account, and we blocked him as soon as he started his objectionable messages.

originnone · 61-69, M

Well....the reigning thought is that even being nasty is providing him feedback, which gives him incentive to continue. So, the prevailing idea is to ignore and continue to even though there might actually be a short term increase in his texts....eventually he'll stop

VeronicaJane

It sounds like you ended the relationship, but he doesn't want to believe it. You could just message him to please stop, it's over and then block him on your cell and social media.

ArishMell · 70-79, M

Can't you block his messages?

Certainly do not respond in any way at all; either nicely or nastily. That is playing into his hands. Ignore him.

masterofyou · 70-79, M

I know you don't want to hurt this individual just ignore this person or persons and they will finally get the message. Or you can just block them ..

BLP11520 · 61-69, M

Unfortunately some guys are dense. Tell him to move on one last time you are through.

1490wayb · 56-60, M

stupidity is a very serious problem and there is no cure...except murder??

Pinkstarburst · 51-55, F

Remove him from your phone list and all social media. Out of sight, out of mind.

SW-User

Why are you responding to his messages? Why haven't you blocked all his contacts?

SheDevil2vile · 26-30, F

Trust me I’ve been very straight forward and I have stopped replying to his messages

Justafantasy · M

Stop responding. Demonstrate they no longer exist in your life

SStarfish ·

Idk were were blunt about it or trying to give hints?

Livingwell · 61-69, M

Just tell them. You don't want to associate any longer.

BeJeweled · F

Just block him and then forget he exists!

StevetheSleeve · 31-35, M

I feel like there’s still a chance. Lol.

ravenwind43 · 51-55, F

Why not just block them? Problem solved.

Khenpal1 · M

just tell him you are pregnant with another guy 😂

Queendragonfly · 31-35, F

Why are you not just blocking them?

PhilDeep · 51-55, M

Ignore then block.

Wizardry · 46-50, M

Would block them

Nihiless

You don't have to be mean or nasty about it at all. Just explicitly state that you don't want him to message you anymore, if you're still replying to him it's giving him motivation to continue. 🤷

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