How oblivious can you be?

So I’m trying to get rid of someone but this person simply won’t stop messaging me and doesn’t understand I don’t want anything to do with them anymore. How nasty and mean do I have to get before he gets it? am I not being clear enough? I ended the relationship and he still doesn’t get it..,

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originnone · 61-69, M

Well....the reigning thought is that even being nasty is providing him feedback, which gives him incentive to continue. So, the prevailing idea is to ignore and continue to even though there might actually be a short term increase in his texts....eventually he'll stop