ViciDraco · 41-45, M
I disagree with it only in that I don't think there is a master model for love and relationships. This may be a hot take these days but I think the traditional male breadwinner model, the everyone works model, and even the female breadwinner model are all valid.
The important thing is that everyone is contributing. If I'm "affording to take care of you" then I'm going to have different expectations of you when it comes to homemaking than I would if we're both pulling in a paycheck. And if my partner is making the big money I'm going to be making sure I am doing the homemaking.
The important thing is that everyone is contributing. If I'm "affording to take care of you" then I'm going to have different expectations of you when it comes to homemaking than I would if we're both pulling in a paycheck. And if my partner is making the big money I'm going to be making sure I am doing the homemaking.
SilentObZerver · 22-25, M
@ViciDraco well articulated!
DearAmbellina2113 · 41-45, F
I agree 100%.
If a man doesn't want to help me, what do I need him for? If I have to take care of everything myself, there is no incentive to even have a man. 🙄
If a man doesn't want to help me, what do I need him for? If I have to take care of everything myself, there is no incentive to even have a man. 🙄
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DearAmbellina2113 · 41-45, F
@BrandNewMan I always do my share. But I want a man who naturally has a 'protect and provide' mentality. 🤷🏻♀
SilentObZerver · 22-25, M
@DearAmbellina2113 and what mentality do you also offer to him?
DearAmbellina2113 · 41-45, F
@SilentObZerver nurture, support (both emotionally and financially when needed), affection.
Lostpoet · M
That way of thinking is how I was brought up. But in the modern economy it's never going to be the woman stays home like it was in the fifties.
Adogslife · 61-69, M
It may not be fair, but regardless, it’s the way I’m wired. So, it seems normal to me.
I want a girlfriend, not a daughter.
oldguy73 · 70-79, M
@NerdyPotato good one
hunkalove · 70-79, M
I think that has a lot to do with why I'm a 75-year-old bachelor. It just ain't worth the effort.
SilentObZerver · 22-25, M
@hunkalove so you've been single for 75 years?
hunkalove · 70-79, M
@SilentObZerver yep.
SilentObZerver · 22-25, M
@hunkalove wow thats great
You really deserve plaudits
You really deserve plaudits
DeWayfarer · 61-69, M
Promotion for capitalism.
It's just as ugly if not worse. Because it uses gender based promotion.
Notice it doesn't say: "Stop dating men if you can't afford to take care of them". 😂
Also it doesn't give any limits on the number being dated. So it makes a assumption of endless number of women when it's near 50/50%.
What could a woman do if there wasn't at least 33% wealthy men? 🙃
BTW a guestimate of the wealthy men in the USA is 1.01% of the total population.
The well off including the wealthy is 3.94%
And the poor is 6.0%
The options are very limited for women given women out number men slightly.
It's just as ugly if not worse. Because it uses gender based promotion.
Notice it doesn't say: "Stop dating men if you can't afford to take care of them". 😂
Also it doesn't give any limits on the number being dated. So it makes a assumption of endless number of women when it's near 50/50%.
What could a woman do if there wasn't at least 33% wealthy men? 🙃
BTW a guestimate of the wealthy men in the USA is 1.01% of the total population.
The well off including the wealthy is 3.94%
And the poor is 6.0%
The options are very limited for women given women out number men slightly.
peterlee · M
Never buy a meal on the first date.
Restrict the amount you spent on her on drink.
Restrict the amount you spent on her on drink.
SilentObZerver · 22-25, M
@peterlee great!
peterlee · M
Honey trap
SomeMichGuy · M
lol
Her name says it all.
Her name says it all.
BrandNewMan · M
Ye (the artist formerly know as Kanye) said it best ..
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Softandsweet2 · 31-35, F
Or get a second job :)
SilentObZerver · 22-25, M
@Softandsweet2 lol
You think so?
You think so?
YoMomma ·
She don't want a loafer
SilentObZerver · 22-25, M
@YoMomma lol
But is she also a loafer herself?
But is she also a loafer herself?
YoMomma ·
@SilentObZerver who knows.. i don't personally know her 😅
Roundandroundwego · 61-69
Authentic relationships would threaten your norms of forced and financial love. No socialism. Let Cosby be your daughter's best shot. You don't want no socialism. Yum! Degraded people voted for degradation. Yup!
$300 to talk to her on the phone. $500 to meet for coffee. $1000 per kiss. $3000 to see her underwear. $10,000 to... well you get it.
SilentObZerver · 22-25, M
@JamesBugman gold digger vibes?
Rolexeo · 26-30, M
She sounds like a toddler
SilentObZerver · 22-25, M
@Rolexeo lol
ChipmunkErnie · 70-79, M
Dating as a form of prostitution?
@ChipmunkErnie Sign me up. :)
ChipmunkErnie · 70-79, M
@JamesBugman To buy or sell?
@ChipmunkErnie I think if I say I will get booted. ;)
TexChik · F
@SilentObZerver It seems clear from the post and screen name. Synonymous with Gold digger, Hoe, Money Grubber. 🤷🏻♀
SilentObZerver · 22-25, M
@TexChik lol
AngelUnforgiven · 51-55, F
Leave her in the trash where you found her

SW-User
Sounds like a ripoff. Could be worse though, like paying a million to hear Trump lie and brag.
ViciDraco · 41-45, M
@SW-User and then leave after fifteen minutes, haha
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SilentObZerver · 22-25, M
@TexChik lol, you know her that much?