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Craziest person you ever dated? Not met but dated.

Please share if it was more than two dates. Posting this from personal experiences. I've met a few very emotionally unstable people in life. But didn't find out till later.
WizardofOz · 26-30, M
I went out with a girl I knew for a while from college. She was actually an amazing person. The first few dates we went on, she told me about how she wants me to meet her grandma and how her grandma pretty much raised her. It was a very touching story. She went on to tell me how she won't date me if her grandma doesn't like me, of course she was joking, but she said how much her grandma's opinion means to her. Well, one day she picked me up to finally meet her "grandma". She had a basket lunch and a cooler with drinks in it, so I figured we were going on a picnic. Nope, we went to the ST. Thomas cemetery! Her grandma had been dead for four YEARS! It is not a made up story lol It was really hard for me to kind of blow her off after that, because I felt like a horrible person. I didn't end it solely because of the grandma situation but it was clear she had issues with losing someone that she deeply loved and obviously meant the world to her. At that time of in my life, I just didn't wanna deal with it.
WizardofOz · 26-30, M
@being Yes lol She made really good ham sandwiches with pickles on them! I never had pickles on a ham sandwich, to this day I put pickles on my ham sandwiches. She also made a delicious potato salad and cheesecake for dessert.
being · 36-40, F
@WizardofOz I bet the recipe was from🙊
WizardofOz · 26-30, M
@being LMAO! You're probably right! That's pretty clever. 🤣
Sweetpoison · 41-45, F
One time i dated a really disturbed guy, it always felt like he wanted to hurt me physically so i saw the red flags really quick and avoided him
being · 36-40, F
That guy. Great and reaching excellence in a few fields. Huge imagination. Drugs induced.
One night he took me at a beach and decided to talk to me about his world. He was coming from an island on the sky with different animals than our planet and colours. And two hours worth of details.
I tried to let go but he became obsessive and stalked me for months, serious stalking.
He sent me infinite amounts of messages, I've been blocking his account and he'd contact me from a different one.
He was saying unimaginative things and went as far to say that he's releasing me to be free from him but that I shouldn't have babies with anyone since I should wait until the appropriate moment to have his babies. A ton of references to dragons and other stuff.
He'd appear out of the blue in many different circumstances, including my job, parties, when I was returning home at night and stuff.
I was scared but didn't want to get people involved since he's been in prison before and a call would have put him in serious trouble.
I've informed a few friends though.
Eventually his interest faded in time but this story had me alert for long.
ineedadrink · 51-55, M
@being What a whack job.
being · 36-40, F
@ineedadrink I guess I must have had my fair share of responsibility in attracting him
zonavar68 · 56-60, M
Wierd woman I dated for about 6 months in 2020. She works (or did at the time) in 'child protection' at a charity implementing family interventions on behalf of government.

She always goes on about 'layers, lenses and complexities' and 'primary and secondary socialisation'. Never let me give her oral always claiming she was 'dirty'.

She had very bizarre (as I found out) ideas on feminism and how men are automatically the perpetrators of all DV and abuse in relationships and families.

One day I was visiting friends at a rural property about 100 km away and was offered dinner (but I did not stay over). She acused me of 'cheating', so I immediately terminated the relationship and blocked her number. I've never unblocked it.

She was even wierder than my second ex who I left in mid 2018. I'm still single (and in many ways do not want to have relationships again despite missing out on sex, etc. but who cares about that?).
a girl 12 years younger than me...a beautiful soul but only one problem...i found out she was addicted to meth and we went our own way after...wish i still had her phone number today to find out how she's doing...i'd take her back in a heartbeat but not with a meth addiction
Lostpoet · M
Nobody really crazy, but I did have a girl that told me she would leave her son for me if I didn't like him " that's how much she cares about me." That relationship ended that night.
@Lostpoet do you know how old he was?
Lostpoet · M
@ImperialAerosolKidFromEP Yeah, I met him once he was three years old and very cool kid.
@Lostpoet wish I hadn't asked now 😢
Starcrossed · 41-45, F
An ex called my house in college and I wasn't home. We hadn't have a 'bad' split, I just realized I didn't love him and never thought I would. He was still a 'friend' in my roomates eyes so they gave him the number to my new boyfriend's house.

This fool called me at my boyfriend's house.

We proceeded to have the most bizarre catch up conversation as it had been a year or so since the breakup and him moving across the country to live back at his mother's. He had knocked up his next girlfriend but she had already dumped him. He had allegedly seen a psychic who told him he would end up with a girl by my name and hair color. 🙄😮‍💨 He sounded a little off the deepend. Never heard from him again thankfully.
DearAmbellina2113 · 41-45, F
A ballerina who stalked me, tried to isolate me from my friends, and literally cried on her knees in the street when I broke up with her.
Morvoren · F
A guy I saw in 2015. He was easy on the eye but I think he had a substantial drinking problem.
HumanEarth · 56-60, F
My sons mother, she was legitimate crazy. She was a rubber room escapee

My son end up with the similar mental health disorders. He is suffering bad to.

Multiple personality disorder is just one them. Even though his pregnant teenage girl one is funny. Like the time he was laying in the field and thought he was in labor
Inmychair · 61-69, F
On third date. This guy wanted to shave my head
Ferric67 · M
I'm a magnet for crazy
Notsimilarreally · 31-35, F
@Ferric67 Same
Adrift · 61-69, F
My son has all the good crazy ex stories.
When I was younger I could usually tell if someone was a bit off or not by some of the odd things they said or if they seemed too clingy.
So it was usually ghost time if I picked up a creepy vibe.
An ex I dated back when I broke up with my high school sweetheart several eons ago. She has some serious mental issues and lived with an ex who was also self harming at that time. It didnt last. I ran and never looked back
2ndtimeguy · 61-69, M
Met a woman for coffee told me she was on bipolar medicine had been attacked by her ex bf with a knife and other issues. Then she said she had to leave to call her sometime, my waitress said dont you dare call her she is nuts!!
SW-User
Probably the girl I dated for 2 years after my ex-wife and I separated. We dated 2018-2020 and broke up right before Covid started. She was very emotionally unstable and had a lot of maturity issues as well. She was 12 years younger than me. I thought we had some solid common interests and that she could grow but I was wrong. I did a lot for her but she didn’t appreciate any of it in the end. She was the kind where if she felt any bit bad about anything (which she did a lot) then it was always someone else’s fault, and whoever’s fault it is was instantly a globally bad person and anything good about them no longer existed.
Huckleberry42 · 41-45, M
@SW-User Good thing she is no longer around. Sounds entitled also.
SW-User
@Huckleberry42 Yeah she was, she was mid-late 20s when we dated.
eMortal · M
I met a woman once, severely delusional. Constantly investigating God knows what.
The one who called me Miss and walked 2 steps behind me. Weird subby dude. 3 dates.
ineedadrink · 51-55, M
@V00doo Be careful what you wish for, eh? 😅
Plasticbag · 100+, M
@V00doo he still single? 😃
Notsimilarreally · 31-35, F
I've got you all beat
The one I had to seek a restraining order against
uncalled4 · 56-60, M
Dated a controlling narcissist for six years, AMA.
Donotfolowme · 51-55, F
Yea he had issues
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Huckleberry42 · 41-45, M
@caccoon I'm terribly sad to hear that. Did he threaten you if you left him?
caccoon · 36-40
@Huckleberry42 Yessss he was bad with threats

 
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