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DearAmbellina2113 路 41-45, F
1. If there is an instant "spark"
2. If they make me genuinely laugh (not a fake or nervous courtesy laugh)
3. If we had deep conversation on the first date, I am [i]far[/i] more likely to want a 2nd date.
2. If they make me genuinely laugh (not a fake or nervous courtesy laugh)
3. If we had deep conversation on the first date, I am [i]far[/i] more likely to want a 2nd date.
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DearAmbellina2113 路 41-45, F
@novaguy2u I'm all about deep conversation any time. I hate small talk.
Queendragonfly 路 31-35, F
@novaguy2u You keep it casual? BORING
novaguy2u 路 70-79, M
@Queendragonfly Better to take it easy than to come on too strong, I feel.
Matt85 路 36-40, M
when she pays the bill, so sexy 馃い
Jeephikelove 路 46-50, F
-How they treat me and other people.
-Their smile and sense of humour
-how well and easy the conversation goes.
-Their smile and sense of humour
-how well and easy the conversation goes.
"Definitely"? 馃檮 "Earned"?? Pffffft! What if they don't want a second date?
I would not want a second date with anyone who is putting me under a microscope, analyzing my every word or move, and [i]looking[/i] for red flags. Who are they to 'qualify' ME?
I would not want a second date with anyone who is putting me under a microscope, analyzing my every word or move, and [i]looking[/i] for red flags. Who are they to 'qualify' ME?
Magenta 路 F
@AtticEscapee Right?! Some people sit on their own pedestal.
Queendragonfly 路 31-35, F
It was a long time since I dated but, when my man smiled and laughed and made us others laugh and his scent and sexy body and voice and warm energy and brown eyes , oh those eyes, I knew. I knew I wanted to get closer and closer until we were alone in his apartment where we talked for SIX HOURS - SOBER. And then my date arrived and I dumped him and then the amazing guy with the brown eyes scootched closer to me and I felt like "Oh ok he definitely sees me as more than a friend too, glad we're on the same page"
And he got me to stay the night and I have stayed the night ever since.
And he got me to stay the night and I have stayed the night ever since.
MochaAngel 路 36-40, F
@Queendragonfly Sounds like you both are lucky!
SassyStonerQueen 路 22-25, F
Good with convo, funny, doesn鈥檛 have bad breath. Can talk about most topics and doesn鈥檛 ramble about one thing
DragonFruit 路 61-69, M
@SassyStonerQueen This 馃憜馃徏
Mamapolo2016 路 F
Courtesy, to me and others (like waiters or cabbies). Good conversation. No assumptions.
HellsBelle 路 31-35, F
eye contact. and that is coming from an introvert. but I've always been able to have eye contact with people I connect with, So it's a must.
Patientlywaiting 路 46-50, F
Feeling comfortable with the person. Having fun, lots to talk about and a good sense of humour.
MochaAngel 路 36-40, F
@Patientlywaiting Yea the best dates are the ones that are just light and fun. Hate dates that make me feel like it鈥檚 a job interview
Oster1 路 M
She paid! 馃槉馃尯
helenS 路 36-40, F
He just has to tell me something interesting without finishing it, and promising he'll tell me the end of the story next time we meet.
Welcome to SW! 馃尫
Welcome to SW! 馃尫
dale74 路 M
How she treats staff at a restaurant how she talks about her family how she doesn't bring up exes
Magenta 路 F
A connection/attraction/spark
Manners
Feel comfortable with them
Manners
Feel comfortable with them
ExtremeNext 路 31-35
They have teeth 馃
eyeno 路 M
Raymuundo 路 46-50, M
Feeling comfortable. I love women so much. I love everything about them. Their smell, the subtlety, the nuances and the conversation.
MochaAngel 路 36-40, F
@Raymuundo So the small things basically
Raymuundo 路 46-50, M
@MochaAngel for me, yes. I only know me. It might suck, but when you know , you know.
Crazywaterspring 路 61-69, M
Great conversationalist. Educated. Interesting stories. Lack of pretence.
novaguy2u 路 70-79, M
@Crazywaterspring Yep, good one!
Adogslife 路 61-69, M
1) A smile
2) Good eye contact
3) Genuine conversation
2) Good eye contact
3) Genuine conversation
Queendragonfly 路 31-35, F
@Adogslife You're new to the dating scene aren't you?
Adogslife 路 61-69, M
@Queendragonfly No, I got divorced five years ago. It鈥檚 insanely easy to meet women and have a good time if you鈥檙e comfortable in your own skin, decent looking and comfortable.
I just try to avoid the emotionally challenged and women that don鈥檛 have a job other than looking good on someone鈥檚 arm.
I just try to avoid the emotionally challenged and women that don鈥檛 have a job other than looking good on someone鈥檚 arm.
DownTheStreet 路 51-55, M
If they鈥檙e interesting. Like adventure in their life. And of course if there鈥檚 a click.
iamBen 路 M
Chemistry. If it's there, more dates naturally follow.
Montanaman 路 M
When i was dating my wife, it was respect and chivalry. 馃鉂わ笍
Dino11 路 M
intelligence, innocence
onewithshoes 路 22-25, F
Bare feet.馃懀
exexec 路 61-69, C
It was long long ago, but as I recall, the main reasons there was a second date were that we both had fun, and she told me she would really like to date me.
Livingwell 路 61-69, M
Attitude, smile, humor, can hold a conversation, listens, genuinely wants to know about you.
MochaAngel 路 36-40, F
@Livingwell I love that!
in10RjFox 路 M
Connection with involved conversation, and recognition that other exists
elbbbslsbl 路 51-55, M
Better not to talk about it, I mean, what if they're on this website
MochaAngel 路 36-40, F
@elbbbslsbl Even better lol
DiegoWolfe 路 36-40
For me its all about that conversation, if it flows right ill want to keep talking
SW-User
Size of there purse 馃憸馃槏
MochaAngel 路 36-40, F
@SW-User The bigger the better?
SW-User
@MochaAngel That鈥檚 what they say ,right 馃槈
Jimmy2016 路 61-69, M
馃.......If she picks up the check...........
MochaAngel 路 36-40, F
@Jimmy2016 I feel like whoever initiates the date should pick up the check
Jimmy2016 路 61-69, M
@MochaAngel Yep, good point.......
nevergiveup 路 M
understanding of my problems
NerdyPotato 路 M
A special laundry cabinet.
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their sense of humour <3
DCarey 路 46-50, M
Sex
MochaAngel 路 36-40, F
@DCarey 馃槀
Lostlostlost 路 51-55, M
Thicc thighs
MartinTheFirst 路 26-30, M
big boobies
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MochaAngel 路 36-40, F
@MarmeeMarch Always a plus