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DearAmbellina2113 · 41-45, F
1. If there is an instant "spark"
2. If they make me genuinely laugh (not a fake or nervous courtesy laugh)
3. If we had deep conversation on the first date, I am far more likely to want a 2nd date.
2. If they make me genuinely laugh (not a fake or nervous courtesy laugh)
3. If we had deep conversation on the first date, I am far more likely to want a 2nd date.
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DearAmbellina2113 · 41-45, F
@novaguy2u I'm all about deep conversation any time. I hate small talk.
Queendragonfly · 31-35, F
@novaguy2u You keep it casual? BORING
novaguy2u · 70-79, M
@Queendragonfly Better to take it easy than to come on too strong, I feel.
Matt85 · 36-40, M
when she pays the bill, so sexy 🤤
Jeephikelove · 51-55, F
-How they treat me and other people.
-Their smile and sense of humour
-how well and easy the conversation goes.
-Their smile and sense of humour
-how well and easy the conversation goes.
"Definitely"? 🙄 "Earned"?? Pffffft! What if they don't want a second date?
I would not want a second date with anyone who is putting me under a microscope, analyzing my every word or move, and looking for red flags. Who are they to 'qualify' ME?
I would not want a second date with anyone who is putting me under a microscope, analyzing my every word or move, and looking for red flags. Who are they to 'qualify' ME?
Magenta · F
@SmileOnYourBrother Right?! Some people sit on their own pedestal.
Queendragonfly · 31-35, F
It was a long time since I dated but, when my man smiled and laughed and made us others laugh and his scent and sexy body and voice and warm energy and brown eyes , oh those eyes, I knew. I knew I wanted to get closer and closer until we were alone in his apartment where we talked for SIX HOURS - SOBER. And then my date arrived and I dumped him and then the amazing guy with the brown eyes scootched closer to me and I felt like "Oh ok he definitely sees me as more than a friend too, glad we're on the same page"
And he got me to stay the night and I have stayed the night ever since.
And he got me to stay the night and I have stayed the night ever since.
MochaAngel · 36-40, F
@Queendragonfly Sounds like you both are lucky!
SassyStonerQueen · 22-25, F
Good with convo, funny, doesn’t have bad breath. Can talk about most topics and doesn’t ramble about one thing
DragonFruit · 61-69, M
@SassyStonerQueen This 👆🏼
Mamapolo2016 · F
Courtesy, to me and others (like waiters or cabbies). Good conversation. No assumptions.
HellsBelle · 36-40, F
eye contact. and that is coming from an introvert. but I've always been able to have eye contact with people I connect with, So it's a must.
SW-User
Feeling comfortable with the person. Having fun, lots to talk about and a good sense of humour.
MochaAngel · 36-40, F
@SW-User Yea the best dates are the ones that are just light and fun. Hate dates that make me feel like it’s a job interview
Oster1 · M
She paid! 😊🌺
helenS · 36-40, F
He just has to tell me something interesting without finishing it, and promising he'll tell me the end of the story next time we meet.
Welcome to SW! 🌷
Welcome to SW! 🌷
dale74 · M
How she treats staff at a restaurant how she talks about her family how she doesn't bring up exes
Magenta · F
A connection/attraction/spark
Manners
Feel comfortable with them
Manners
Feel comfortable with them
ExtremeNext · 31-35
They have teeth 🤔
eyeno · M
Raymuundo · 46-50, M
Feeling comfortable. I love women so much. I love everything about them. Their smell, the subtlety, the nuances and the conversation.
MochaAngel · 36-40, F
@Raymuundo So the small things basically
Raymuundo · 46-50, M
@MochaAngel for me, yes. I only know me. It might suck, but when you know , you know.
Crazywaterspring · 61-69, M
Great conversationalist. Educated. Interesting stories. Lack of pretence.
novaguy2u · 70-79, M
@Crazywaterspring Yep, good one!
Adogslife · 61-69, M
1) A smile
2) Good eye contact
3) Genuine conversation
2) Good eye contact
3) Genuine conversation
Queendragonfly · 31-35, F
@Adogslife You're new to the dating scene aren't you?
Adogslife · 61-69, M
@Queendragonfly No, I got divorced five years ago. It’s insanely easy to meet women and have a good time if you’re comfortable in your own skin, decent looking and comfortable.
I just try to avoid the emotionally challenged and women that don’t have a job other than looking good on someone’s arm.
I just try to avoid the emotionally challenged and women that don’t have a job other than looking good on someone’s arm.
DownTheStreet · 56-60, M
If they’re interesting. Like adventure in their life. And of course if there’s a click.
iamBen · M
Chemistry. If it's there, more dates naturally follow.
Montanaman · M
When i was dating my wife, it was respect and chivalry. 🤗❤️
Dino11 · M
intelligence, innocence
onewithshoes · 22-25, F
Bare feet.👣
exexec · 61-69, C
It was long long ago, but as I recall, the main reasons there was a second date were that we both had fun, and she told me she would really like to date me.
Livingwell · 61-69, M
Attitude, smile, humor, can hold a conversation, listens, genuinely wants to know about you.
MochaAngel · 36-40, F
@Livingwell I love that!
in10RjFox · M
Connection with involved conversation, and recognition that other exists
elbbbslsbl · 51-55, M
Better not to talk about it, I mean, what if they're on this website
MochaAngel · 36-40, F
@elbbbslsbl Even better lol
WolfGirlwh0r3 · 36-40, T
For me its all about that conversation, if it flows right ill want to keep talking
SW-User
Size of there purse 👜😍
MochaAngel · 36-40, F
@SW-User The bigger the better?
SW-User
@MochaAngel That’s what they say ,right 😉
Jimmy2016 · 61-69, M
🤔.......If she picks up the check...........
MochaAngel · 36-40, F
@Jimmy2016 I feel like whoever initiates the date should pick up the check
Jimmy2016 · 61-69, M
@MochaAngel Yep, good point.......
nevergiveup · M
understanding of my problems
NerdyPotato · M
A special laundry cabinet.
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their sense of humour <3
DCarey · 46-50, M
Sex
MochaAngel · 36-40, F
@DCarey 😂
Lostlostlost · 51-55, M
Thicc thighs
MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M
big boobies
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MochaAngel · 36-40, F
@MarmeeMarch Always a plus