So I actually had a date today

@KuroNeko If he doesn't get it then, then it's a lost case imo. 😑

@Classified he thinks he is a good listener 😂

@KuroNeko One ear in other ear out 😅

@KuroNeko People searching for reasons to excuse the perpetrator and to cruelly turn the table on the victim is most definitely a strange phenomena that has taken place, since the beginning. You are so right.😔

@Oster1 It puts me off saying anything, it really does.

@KuroNeko Unfortunately, you are not alone. This vicious cycle serves to manifest even more abuse and emboldens the perpetrators, even more.

It’s very heroic of you to speak up today. The uncrossable line, has to be drawn. It must be fierce with absolutely no ambiguity. Abuse has to be snuffed out and eradicated with no misunderstanding whatsoever. This is just undeniably wrong and unacceptable! It has to stop!

@Mamapolo2016 Just owning a vagina is enough!

@KuroNeko Or knowing someone who does.

@Mamapolo2016 or once hearing about someone who knows someone with one 😂😂

@AbbySvenz Hey! 😡 You aren't supposed to know that for another 20 years! Stay Pure 😇

@marsbar need trust first!

@KuroNeko Yes, that too.

@Viper he was convinced I wanted it. Despite me saying with actual words that I didn't. If that's a struggle, guys like that need locking up.

@KuroNeko One problem I've noticed is that more and more people seem to have trouble getting their mind hell out of their own heads... and projecting their thoughts on others.

I've read it's largely due to the fact we humans are talking and interacting in person a hell lot less and more though electronics.


This is basically killing our in person skills, to read other people correctly, and interact with them correctly... or instead of correctly let's say maximum potential.


Instead we're filling in the gaps with our own heads and projecting it on others. And early on, it seems like a fairytale which is why so many relationship work well at first, but as you go, it breaks down quickly as reality breaks the false wall gaps that our brains filled incorrectly.


And that's just assuming that's he's a nice guy and actually read the signals wrong.

He could of also just been an A-hole whom didn't give a crap about any signals, he was going to do what the hell he wanted... which is a totally different story.

@Viper I don't think he could read the signs but he could definitely hear the words.

@ravenwind43 The stupid thing is, he is already messaging and asking about seeing me again.

@KuroNeko Shakes head. This kind of thing makes me hesitate trying the dating scene again. Ugh.

@ravenwind43 This was my first attempt in a long time. I feel like I'd need to take someone else with me next time.

@SW-User I have enough twats in my own past to convince me never to see this guy again, don't you worry.

@SW-User yeah that's creepy. I don't blame you.

@KuroNeko Please don't worry at all. Not every man is a preyer.

Please call for help when it's needed the most or take self-defence lessons. Pepper spray and tazer would be equally helpful.🙂

I hope a Gentleman is able to change your perspective next time. Good Luck!👍

@SoLeRiMix Not worrying at all is just not possible when SOME of them are like this.

@KuroNeko I understand Missy!

May you find someone better soon!🙏😇

@KuroNeko I've been called "incorrigible" before 😏...

@Ghostinthemachine for all the right reasons I hope lol

@KuroNeko not sure what the right reasons are, but she knew I liked being called that so she continued 😁

@mondayschild2 they all say that shit lol.

@Riverman2 They are surprisingly few and far between

@KuroNeko just remind yourself that you are worth one of those few

@Riverman2 I know what I'm worth. 🙂

@chrisCA Yep

@KuroNeko Crazy

@Adstar oh so you're the douchenozzle.

@Adstar WTF is this? You support men pushing themselves on women. Why is this her problem?

@Adstar you're trying to start shit... Not a good move! 🤬

@Eddiesolds Ruined any future possibility of anything happening 🤷‍♀️

@KuroNeko yes I'm sure. Dummy

@DunningKruger we had so much in common, loads to talk about. He just ruined it.

@Ferric67 yes, that stuff should definitely come after the connection on an emotional level.

@zerofuks2give I will try that next time.

@KuroNeko good luck

@thepeculiarpanda Totally.

@SwampFlower as it should be.

@SW-User Thank you.

@Justenjoyit you don't want to chat too long and get your Hope's dashed upon finally meeting 🤷‍♀️

@Mindfulness Thank you, I appreciate your words.

@KuroNeko Are you ok though? Other than pissed off, and rightly so?

@Mindfulness I admit it's affected me more than I expected. I didn't go into the details in my post.

@Ilena I appreciate the sentiment

@SW-User He told me he himself had been raped as a teenager and so he really cared about consent. All the while he behaved in the opposite way. Very confusing.

@KuroNeko omgosh that's really strange. He has problems for sure, self awareness is obviously an issue for one thing. 😒

@iamonfire696 he actually text to say we shouldn't continue lol

@KuroNeko really? He probably knew that it blew it and wanted to save face for himself.

@iamonfire696 @KuroNeko I'm thinking he knew what he was doing, I think based on that, he trying to hook up only, not actually date.

@MethDozer yeah terribly rapey vibes.