So I actually had a date today

it went great apart from the fact that the guy just kept kissing and trying to touch me, despite me saying I didn't want him to numerous times. In the end I just left.

Why have some guys gotta ruin it like that??

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Viper · M

He was struggling to put others first... :( ... he put his own desires over another person :( for us men, that can be hard for us :(

KuroNeko · 41-45, F

@Viper he was convinced I wanted it. Despite me saying with actual words that I didn't. If that's a struggle, guys like that need locking up.

Viper · M

@KuroNeko One problem I've noticed is that more and more people seem to have trouble getting their mind hell out of their own heads... and projecting their thoughts on others.

I've read it's largely due to the fact we humans are talking and interacting in person a hell lot less and more though electronics.

This is basically killing our in person skills, to read other people correctly, and interact with them correctly... or instead of correctly let's say maximum potential.

Instead we're filling in the gaps with our own heads and projecting it on others. And early on, it seems like a fairytale which is why so many relationship work well at first, but as you go, it breaks down quickly as reality breaks the false wall gaps that our brains filled incorrectly.

And that's just assuming that's he's a nice guy and actually read the signals wrong.

He could of also just been an A-hole whom didn't give a crap about any signals, he was going to do what the hell he wanted... which is a totally different story.

KuroNeko · 41-45, F

@Viper I don't think he could read the signs but he could definitely hear the words.