So I actually had a date today

@Oster1 I really feel like it was. I felt really shaken afterwards.

@KuroNeko I completely understand and am so sorry that you experienced this. It is just WRONG, period! There is no excuse available.

I really hope you can soon relax, rid your mind and try to salvage the weekend. It was not your fault in any way and the least I can do here is try to validate your feelings. You absolutely were assaulted.

I have read your posts and it’s very obvious this experience is very traumatic to you. You have been offended. You are not broken, damaged or being a drama queen.

You were sexually assaulted last night. My only wish is that it never happened. I have no idea but if you have suffered this before, this only serves to prolong the healing. For all of this, I am truly very sorry.😔🌷

@Oster1 Thank you for such a considerate and sensitive reply. It really does mean a lot to be validated, even though nobody should need that. It's surprising just how often people will search for reasons to why it's the victims fault.

@KuroNeko Thank you, for your very sweet and kind words, under this circumstance and your duress. I truly regret that we are having this conversation, at all.
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@KuroNeko People searching for reasons to excuse the perpetrator and to cruelly turn the table on the victim is most definitely a strange phenomena that has taken place, since the beginning. You are so right.😔

@Oster1 It puts me off saying anything, it really does.

@KuroNeko Unfortunately, you are not alone. This vicious cycle serves to manifest even more abuse and emboldens the perpetrators, even more.

It’s very heroic of you to speak up today. The uncrossable line, has to be drawn. It must be fierce with absolutely no ambiguity. Abuse has to be snuffed out and eradicated with no misunderstanding whatsoever. This is just undeniably wrong and unacceptable! It has to stop!