How do i handle my new male neighbor? I moved into a new apartment on October 1st 2021 & even...

Oster1 · M

Honestly, I think you just moved into the wrong apartment. It seems to me, you will never have peace. I would be very cautious and vigilant! Or get the hell out of there, even threatening to sue unless let out of the lease. This will not end well.

kodiac · 22-25, M

Wait he's 20 years older and your 50's ? Just grab his walker and run lol

kodiac · 22-25, M

Mace 😵

SW-User

Since he brought up the race shit I would probably say, "nah most of them don't have jobs. They can't afford to date me."

SW-User

Well, damn that "overly friendly" "black guy," but are you not discriminating against him because of his age? You're obviously not black, and he, along with the entire black male population at your apartment complex/neighborhood are hitting on you, so I'm confused as to where racism is at play here, or even the use of intimidation. I guess it's his being "obnoxious." Lucky for him that you hate racism and discrimination though. 🙄 As far as how you handle this situation, if you're really 51-55, you are so past grown, surely you can figure it out.

Harlow · 31-35, F

Be real blunt. Flat out tell him you’re not interested, never will be and to leave you alone. After that ignore him like he’s invisible, so as to suffocate him with no attention.

DownTheStreet · 51-55, M

I was talking with a guy last week who was all about race and when I brought up the Virginia AG he’s like “she’s a sell out” and I responded “maybe she just tore up the victim card?” And I’m pretty sure he won’t talk to me again.

Iwillwait · M

At least he's not racist.🙄

Northwest · M

You must be on to some new social phenomenon. Random black men in their 70s, for no particularly good reason, harassing you and asking you to only date black men.

meJess · F

I thing handling your neighbour might just give the wrong impression

TheOneyouwerewarnedabout · 41-45, MVIP

Just tell him you was black.. but your melanin played up when you didn’t vote for joe

Larksky · M

Tell him you got a bf

QueenOfTheNerds · 41-45, F

Just be honest. 🤷🏻‍♀️

Jenny1234 · 51-55, F

Time to move

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REMsleep · 41-45, F

Just tell him straight up no chaser that you aren't interested and if he is playing the race card then you can to. Tell him that you don't date outside of your race.

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