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How do i handle my new male neighbor?

I moved into a new apartment on October 1st 2021 & even before any of my stuff was moved in a black guy came running out of the apartment building & was being obnoxious and overly friendly.well last week I was waiting on a ride to the laundry mat & he flat out says to me as I'm waiting for my ride that I should only date black men and not all men are a like.i don't date my neighbors & I don't like how he has talked to me multiple times.he's been making this all about race & i don't like that at all.he claims he is not like all guys but i get told by black men at least once a week I should only date black men.i don't want to date guys who use intimidation to get what they want from a women.he's also 20 plus years older than me,not attracted to the guy etc.him the using the race card just pisses me off & I don't want to deal with drama from him
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SW-User
Since he brought up the race shit I would probably say, "nah most of them don't have jobs. They can't afford to date me."
Privateperson70 · 51-55, F
@SW-User he claims he's not like all of them & I get told this multiple times a week by random black guys.so he's acting like people he claims he's not like.i feel like telling him that
SW-User
@Privateperson70 I wouldn't want to date a neighbor either
Privateperson70 · 51-55, F
@SW-User because of privacy and if things go soar probably stalking.he also had to mention I'm not getting any younger.thats rich coming from someone 20 years older than me
SW-User
@Privateperson70 wtf this dude needs to just stfu.

Well I did date a dude that lives on my block before but only maybe a dozen times.
Privateperson70 · 51-55, F
@SW-User I never dated a neighbor because I like my privacy & to many weirdos in the metro area I live in
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