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How do i handle my new male neighbor?

I moved into a new apartment on October 1st 2021 & even before any of my stuff was moved in a black guy came running out of the apartment building & was being obnoxious and overly friendly.well last week I was waiting on a ride to the laundry mat & he flat out says to me as I'm waiting for my ride that I should only date black men and not all men are a like.i don't date my neighbors & I don't like how he has talked to me multiple times.he's been making this all about race & i don't like that at all.he claims he is not like all guys but i get told by black men at least once a week I should only date black men.i don't want to date guys who use intimidation to get what they want from a women.he's also 20 plus years older than me,not attracted to the guy etc.him the using the race card just pisses me off & I don't want to deal with drama from him
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REMsleep · 41-45, F
Just tell him straight up no chaser that you aren't interested and if he is playing the race card then you can to. Tell him that you don't date outside of your race.
Privateperson70 · 51-55, F
@REMsleep I won't date him for multiple reasons.red flags is #1 reason.i'm pretty much a stranger to him & he's already treating me like garbage.i could just imagine how he'd treat me if I dated him.don't trust him.not attracted to him.hell he isn't even friend material