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How do i handle my new male neighbor?

I moved into a new apartment on October 1st 2021 & even before any of my stuff was moved in a black guy came running out of the apartment building & was being obnoxious and overly friendly.well last week I was waiting on a ride to the laundry mat & he flat out says to me as I'm waiting for my ride that I should only date black men and not all men are a like.i don't date my neighbors & I don't like how he has talked to me multiple times.he's been making this all about race & i don't like that at all.he claims he is not like all guys but i get told by black men at least once a week I should only date black men.i don't want to date guys who use intimidation to get what they want from a women.he's also 20 plus years older than me,not attracted to the guy etc.him the using the race card just pisses me off & I don't want to deal with drama from him
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Well, damn that "overly friendly" "black guy," but are you not discriminating against him because of his age? You're obviously not black, and he, along with the entire black male population at your apartment complex/neighborhood are hitting on you, so I'm confused as to where racism is at play here, or even the use of intimidation. I guess it's his being "obnoxious." Lucky for him that you hate racism and discrimination though. 🙄 As far as how you handle this situation, if you're really 51-55, you are so past grown, surely you can figure it out.
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