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Did your mom ever show you how to do makeup?

Or talk to you about boys or dating?
Talk to you about yourself as a young lady?
About what to expect from relationships, how to respect yourself..?
Hold you/comfort you when you were sad?
Do girls nights together?


I longed for any of those things. Unfortunately , never had or got even one.
I didn't even wear any makeup, until I was 17. Most girls now are applying it by 11 or 12 years old. I wonder how much more of life I could live with ease, with confidence etc. if any need or want had actually been filled by my 'mother'. It really makes me sad , but I'm trying to push onward and upward in any way.
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Thevy29 · 41-45, M
Mum had 4 boys and she always wanted a girl. So we all know how to cook and how to use a sewing needle.
@Thevy29 My father was one of three boys. Their mother taught them all how to cook; she told them, "You all love to eat, and you shouldn’t starve if you don’t find wives right away !"

Pop needn’t have worried, but Mom was grateful that he could cook, too. 😊
exexec · 70-79, C
My wife's mother was a classic beauty, model material, and she taught my wife most of those things. I'm glad she did.
ScreamingFox · 41-45, F
Nope. My Mama never wore makeup. She never dated until I had married and settled. She was a free spirit, a hard working, hands on woman of the earth. She taught me a lot, but nothing about being what is socially considered feminine.

I'm glad she didn't. It saved my skin, it saved me money and self consciousness. I feel beautiful without all that and I found my own femininity.
Jenny1234 · 56-60, F
Yes she did. All of that.

But she was never heavy on the make up size. She taught me how to do blush and mascara. She said that was enough. It was my sister’s friend who took modelling classes that taught me how to do a lot of makeup
Muthafukajones · 46-50, M
I wish my father had given me more good advice. We didn’t have the best relationships but he was good with people and women especially. I got nothing but garbage information about dating from my older brothers and friends at school. It took me all of my twenties to purge a lot of that crap!
Yes, she did. The makeup was very light, though, because she never wore much herself; just a bit of shadow and lipstick for special occasions.
Punxi · F
My sister and I weren't taught to adorn adorn ourselves to be enough...but more so that we already were.

Choose girly...ness?...but not to depend on it.
Justmeraeagain · 56-60, F
Not most of it she did teach me about respecting myself around boys.
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DearAmbellina2113 · 41-45, F
My mom did teach me about makeup. She even held me down and plucked my eyebrows when I was 13.

But she was not nurturing. Very critical.
Thatsright · 61-69, M
7 hours and not an unusual comment yet.
Baybreeze · 41-45, F
@Thatsright What would an unusual one be?
Thatsright · 61-69, M
@Baybreeze You almost drew me offsides! You’ll see. Or maybe mine is.
sarabee1995 · 31-35, F
Yes. For sure. She started by teaching me to do my eyes in middle school and the "makeup education" continued from there.

The "boys & dating" conversations were slower to develop because I never really had much interest. She would bring it up and I'd be like,"I'll let you know when it becomes an issue!" 🤣

The "young lady" conversation was ongoing and constant. She denies it now, but I know she'd rather have had a girly daughter. 🤷‍♀

Not "girls nights" but shopping trips. My mom was (and is) a huge believer in retail therapy. I learned that anytime she said let's go shopping, it meant she had something she wanted to talk to me about. 🤣
Baybreeze · 41-45, F
@sarabee1995 It's nice reading that. To know real care and kindness exist...thank you Sara. The retail therapy sounds so fun ,☺

 
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