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Men - why would you want to share your wife/GF sexually?

Poll - Total Votes: 29
I would only want to to this for her pleasure.
I don't think that I am honestly satisfying her.
I think it would be great way to spice things up.
Honestly, I am hoping she's bi-curious and would like to try another woman
Yes, I would want to be with other women, but want to offer my wife/GF the same chance too.
I'm basically a voyeur and would like to her to be my own private p*rn star.
You're not even close - see my answer below.
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It seems that when men suggest to their wife/GF they'd like to see them sexually with other men, many women would be concerned that the men want to use her activities to attempt to open the door for them to do the same.

So honestly, why would you want to share your wife sexually?
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zonavar68 · 56-60, M
I've never considered the idea of 'sharing' either of my relationship partners when I was in either of those. My first ex tried to 'save' the relationship by offering a 3 some with a guy I'd never met and her, but I declined.

Should a relationship ever happen again, maybe 'sharing' could be a topic that might occur but in all honesty finding a woman interested in that probably means she isn't fully commited to our relationship. Just my view.
WasEP · 51-55, M
I do, even asked the wife
JustADad · 36-40, M
She asked for it. I complied. very willingly
zonavar68 · 56-60, M
@JustADad I think this is the catch - it has to be the woman that wants to do it (ie. cheat but not), as I suspect if a husband cold-mentioned it to his wife 9 times out of 10 the answer would be 'no' and in some cases result in violence and threats of divorce. Yet a woman can suggest it and like all things in the 'womanosphere' it immediately gets accepted as valid.
CuriousCouple25 · 56-60, CVIP
Im.open to try it for her
ViciDraco · 41-45, M
As a polyamorous person it is more about being free and giving freedom to engage in loving others. It's not so much about sharing as it is about not staking ownership over intimacy.
MikeHurts · 56-60, M
@ViciDraco That was my take. If you love something set it free .. again and again and ....
Rabbit420 · 70-79, M
I like to think that I am pretty open minded sexually, but I would never let my GF or wife have sex with another man or men. If my GF wanted to do this I would not consider her my GF any longer and restrict our relationship to more of an occasional FWB relationship. If my wife wanted to do it I would get a divorce and ask her why we got married in the first place. Although I would consider 3somes as long as we were equally inclusive about it. Not just MFM, but also MMF, FFM and FMF and not more of one than any of the others. If men want to share their wives with the world then they should just marry a prostitute.
CuriousCouple25 · 56-60, CVIP
Shes Curious
CuriousCouple25 · 56-60, CVIP
@VeronicaJane why are you suggesting this? U been there?
@CuriousCouple25 LOL... my ex-spouse was a serial cheater. I also have several friends and acquaintances where the men thought it would be really hot for their wives/GFs to be intimate with other men. However the men's fantasies did not match reality. Sometimes the women came harder, were more carnal and did things that they wouldn't do with the men. Some of the men had a change of mind, but the women did not want to stop, and didn't.

Let's just say that path is littered with bruised egos, broken relationships or divorces. Tread it if you wish, just have your eyes open.
CuriousCouple25 · 56-60, CVIP
@VeronicaJane ok thx
Fawma123 · 46-50, M
I wouldn't want to share my wife but I do like to show her off. Basically because she was one of the popular girls back in the day and I want people to see how lucky I am.
Adogslife · 61-69, M
I wouldn’t want to share my wife. That aside, the answer from me would be that the warped/convoluted concern might be worse than an actual threesome.
daveegan111 · 41-45, M
If she wanted it id hope we would discuss it and agree on this path together
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DearAmbellina2113 · 41-45, F
@BrandonWyatt36 you know she could leave you for a woman, right?
BrandonWyatt36 · 36-40, M
@DearAmbellina2113 Well I'm a man... I mean if that happened YEAH I'd take responsibility for my actions that it would be my own fault for having the big bright idea to share her with another woman... All I could do..
PatientlyWaiting25 · 46-50, F
It's completely alien to me too, I think some get off on a kind of humiliation and power exchange when their wives sleep with other men.
@PatientlyWaiting25 There could be reasons other than humiliation and power exchange. I mean specifically when the idea originates with the man, and not when a woman decides to cuckold her man. Sometimes dues to physical issues, a man may not be able to satisfy their wives. Some men seem to genuinely want it so that their wives experience a different level of satisfaction.
PatientlyWaiting25 · 46-50, F
@VeronicaJane you see I don't buy that, even if a guy is fully disabled and cannot have sex, they can share in the intimacy of masturbation,there's sex toys and he can do oral if he can't get it up anymore. Sometimes when guys say they can't satisfy their wife, that admission is a form of humiliation I think they get off on, same when they say they have a tiny penis. It's a choice, no judgement either way but I don't believe they have no other options. 😊
Ambersky · 51-55, F
It might sound good in their head, but it may (probably) blow up in their face.

Are you SURE you want her exploring?
nevergiveup · 61-69, M
I would never share her and if she said she would like to do it i would be worried she was not happy with me
MikeHurts · 56-60, M
I could only vote once so I will say it was for her pleasure to start with and turned into her and her friends with benefits becoming my favorite porn stars. :-)
Degbeme · 70-79, M
Share her? I can`t even give her away. 🙄🤭
I would never consider doing anything like that.
Wireman · 31-35, M
No, she is mine alone.
She was into this lifestyle before we met.
It was about 3 months into our relationship that I was made a cuckold
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@hippyjoe1955 yes, I am still a cuckold
exexec · 70-79, C
She was sexually active with others before we married, so after a few years of marriage, I asked her if she missed the variety. We set some guidelines, and she was free to enjoy herself. I was not present or involved in any way.
exexec · 70-79, C
@VeronicaJane She only did what we agreed she could do.
@exexec ..but to say she thought you already knew and by the time she told you it was fine -- it was only before you were married and not since....
exexec · 70-79, C
@VeronicaJane After we married, she has been free to do whatever she wants to do. That is all I will say in this public forum.
Lilnonames · F
why dont you ever see a woman saying she wants to share her hubby?
fanuc2013 · 51-55, F
@Lilnonames I knew a woman that did that once!
bowman81 · M
I don't want to share, call me selfish if you wish. Not for me.
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Lilnonames · F
@NativePortlander1970 maybe they are lol
@Lilnonames Possibly so
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