have you ever experienced "pretty privilege"?

@GuiltyBiStander bzzzz bzzzz what’s happening you 😂

@GuiltyBiStander They just wanna be all up in yo business! 😮

@GuiltyBiStander I could see that.

@reubles omg we need picsss

@foldedunfolding sorry there aren't any, I've never liked having my picture taken. 😬

@Ynotjenn id let ya too 😁

@foldedunfolding As someone who has gone up and down on weight big time this is so true lmfao

@Juvia im back down 50 lbs again..going to get there unless i die first!! but honestly anyone who speaks sexually or just abt my looks..i really need to drop them immediately, or get someone to test their character for me before we date. if anyone is rude to a fat friend of mine, or even dismissive..i need to not date them.

@foldedunfolding Kind of strange behavior on their part. Especially if they see you at work.

I have seen a few of your posts where you talk about feeling insecure. There is something you have not seen yet but you soon will and it will be very satisfying -

Throughout our 40's, the people who seem to have the world by the short hairs tend to lose their advantages. Their perfect marriages crumble, their looks fade really quick, and the "pretty ones" become invisible like the rest of us.

It is kind of satisfying because ya know, when we were younger we were jealous of those people and they snubbed their noses at us. But someday you will see them and think, "I would not even p*ss on them if they were on fire."

But yeah people's perfect little world eventually comes crashing down. And you will love seeing it when it happens to those people you once envied.

@Punches that is actually a really fascinating take, because i always kinda felt like the world was backwards..that we should be getting younger, not older, the harder we work. now i see it has its own advantage..thank you for this!

@foldedunfolding It would complicate things if some of us aged backwards. Suppose two young adults fell in love, both 21, then three years later realize the woman is now eighteen and the man is twenty-four and if they don't end the relationship he's going to be in big trouble in a year?

@foldedunfolding having a my neighbor volunteer to change my tire even though I could do it myself...female privilege.

That is one small example but there have been many through my life

@FreeSpirit1 ah gotcha

@FreeSpirit1 It's very true. There's a level of chivalry that, in spite of the modern feminists, is still there. I have never seen a woman carry a man's furniture from the truck to the apartment then start putting it together, or change the oil in a car for a man, etc. Men will do that, though, but schools and societal pressure are making that anachronistic. I saw a video of a woman being sexually assaulted on a subway train, and the guys around her chose to video the ordeal with their phones rather than help. It breaks my heart and angers me.

@tallpowerhouseblonde I, for one, believe every word of everything you post here. :D

@Punches

@SW-User feels kinda shitty being around someone who has it when you dont..just came back from the pool where i thought the security guard flirts with ME..but he went to my married friend, who was not wearing her ring, and called her beautiful while excluding me. she then didnt even tell him she was married, and wants to come back to the pool again. im not into him, but damn..made me feel kinda small lol

@foldedunfolding ya that doesn’t feel good.

@JustAmber 🫨🫨🫨🫨 what?!?! Shocked 😉

@Livingwell you had a chance

@exexec lmao Basic Instinct maneuverrr

@foldedunfolding At least she was wearing panties.

@CountScrofula do tell?

@foldedunfolding Doors just kinda open for her. Like she goes to a trip to Seattle to see around and suddenly she's invited to a VIP room at a swish club where the only champagne is 300 dollar bottles of Dom. She goes up to the space needle and the maintenance dude lets them climb the exterior.

She's a completely decent and good person and has that protagonist of reality thing going for her.

@CountScrofula wowww that is wild. she also seems really charismatic tho, from what you have told me of her. but i do think that pretty privilege can ALSO manifest itself AS the confidence to have unmitigated charisma too

@Haniazed oh I know 😏

@Ynotjenn yeah that face would make SOMEthing happen. God knows what though. 😬

@Punches Exactly! Lol I didn’t say what!🤓

@V00doo ha same..

@Chickie thennn you prob have it lol.

@foldedunfolding no, I don't most guys don't like me.

@Chickie pretty privilege folks get their jokes laughed at more, they get discounted items, they get ushered quickly into clubs, etc..

@pancakeslam plenty!

@pancakeslam doesnt answer if u have felt it tho

@foldedunfolding I'm not familiar with privilege. I am a hard gainer.