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Can I allow my wife to show cleavage outside she likes the idea

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Pinkstarburst

You don’t have the right to ALLOW her to do anything with her body. It’s hers to do with as she chooses.

Fawma123 · 46-50, M

[image] nothing wrong with showing cleavage

Patriot96 · 56-60, C

@Fawma123 would she like a pearl necklace

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Fawma123 · 46-50, M

@Patriot96 you can only ask

Xalvadora · 18-21, F

"Allow"? Since when you have control over her?😂 She does whatever the fuck she wants.

Nomad7 · 22-25, M

@Xalvadora Well, he can certainly decide if he wants to be with a woman who likes to show her tits to the world…

BigBulge · 41-45, M

@Nomad7 Agreed.

Xalvadora · 18-21, F

@Nomad7 Then why he's asking?

Harriet03 · 41-45, F

"Allow?" What do you mean?
Is she not allowed to make her own decisions?

Nelisme · 22-25, F

If I was your poor wife, I’d be flashing everyone and not asking for permission.

exexec · 61-69, C

I don't think my wife ever asked my permission on what to wear, but I enjoyed it when she wore sexier outfits.

Olderguy · 61-69, M

How are you going to allow her to do that. She can do it if she wants.

hartfire

You have no right to try to control her in any way, let alone the way she dresses.

Even in Islam, a woman's modesty is her choice; she chooses it as a way to express her faith in and surrender to the will of Allah. Modesty is influenced by what is the norm in the culture around her, and includes not just dress but all behaviour. Men are equally enjoined to be modest, but in specifically male clothing.

Wherever you live in the world, if your wife disliked the way men treat her when she shows cleavage, she'd soon change her mind and choose a more modest style.
In the west, polite men would look, but usually not say or do anything. But a few men would hassle her - any that would soon become unpleasant and scary. She wouldn't do it for long.
In Muslim countries it would be flat out dangerous - and I doubt she would dare.

Maybe you could just pay more attention to her, show an interest in her interests, listen more, compliment her (including her beauty), be affectionate and loving, and [i]show[/i] her that you still feel attracted to her.

butterflybaby75 · 46-50, F

You don't have the right to give 'permission' - you do not own your wife. If she wants to show off her body she is allowed to and only she can make that decision herself. She can include you in the outcomes of that choice but you can't tell her 'yes' or 'no' about her own body.

RedBaron · M

Who are you to decide for her?

Myself11 · 61-69, M

Yes we would love to see it 😍

Sequoia51 · 70-79, M

No Nipples?

Adogslife · 61-69, M

Are you asking because you can’t handle it?

The question is confusing. 🤔

messy5288 · 31-35, M

@Adogslife i want to look hot outside also

Adogslife · 61-69, M

@messy5288 Assuming you’re not living in a Muslim country, that vote isn’t yours. She needs to dress for her own self esteem. You are just the bystander that gets a benefit as well.

SinlessOnslaught · 26-30, M

zonavar68 · 51-55, M

Your wife can do with her body what she likes - she isn't your property to control.

spice1 · M

Yes not only allow but encourage her to show cleavage as often as possible.

ReneeT · 61-69, M

Why does she need to ask your permission? If it makes her feel good, that is her choice

MasterDvdC · 70-79, M

The more the better. Up to, and including, letting them see her completely naked.

BigBulge · 41-45, M

Absolutely. Don't just "allow" it. Encourage it. You should be proud to show her off. Take her shopping, and buy her clothes that show really deep cleavage, then watch men checking her out when the two of you are walking down the street together. Keep in mind that YOU are the one she will be going home with. And, all those men are envious of what you've got.