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As I’ve become an older man I feel like I’m now invisible to wonen

When I was a young man all I had to do was smile.

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WillaKissing · 56-60

Flash some cash that always works!

robertsnj · 56-60, M

@WillaKissing I wasn't wearing my senior citzen's glasses. I thought you wrote "flash them that always works' I need bail money now. ....do you have any?

WillaKissing · 56-60

@robertsnj Oh, that's a great reply had me laughing out loud literally. On the Bail money aid sorry I am pretty low on funds.

robertsnj · 56-60, M

I feel that happening too but at a gradual level. kinda like creeping up on me.

I am balding.
I am height / weight proportitional and in really good shape .
I am probably really average looking. Not ugly but not someone that could ever turn heads
i am not muscular

I think I will likely be invisible to the opposite sex when I am in my early 60's.

I think that is true for both genders though. women probably experience the same thing.

FrogManSometimesLooksBothWays · M

Wonen? Wonen: The state of being simultaneously wide awake and half-asleep, usually experienced during those early morning hours when you're convinced you can conquer the world but also seriously considering hitting snooze for the fifteenth time.

exexec · 61-69, C

When I walk my dog, I enjoy the smiles and "hellos" from young ladies. Maybe it's the dog.

novaguy2u · 70-79, M

@exexec Does it answer back?

exexec · 61-69, C

@novaguy2u No. She is a beagle with her nose to the ground.

Dez580 · 61-69, M

Actually, i have experienced quite the reverse. Many women are most happy to approach me as i always act with a degree of decorum and finesse. Being polite and complimentary is a much more sucessful way to seduce than boasting, throwing money about or being arrogant.

zonavar68 · 56-60, M

@Dez580 True but one needs to have the confidence, and when a person has low self-worth/esteem/confidence due to being burnt in the past and not feeling positive about relationships approaching people to start up conversations is quite difficult.

Dez580 · 61-69, M

@zonavar68 That is true, the best way to interact with women is not to have an ulterior motive but just to be friendly. Younger men often jump in feet first and make a pass, instead of talikng normally, no chat up lines or anything as crass as that. Actually many delightful ladies I have met find men who are somewhat shy or a little reserved non threatening and will be friendly towards them. Above all be a good listener and you will be rewarded

zonavar68 · 56-60, M

Apparently having a young child and being with her doing fun things in public places is supposed to attract women, but from my experience it's all bs. Half the people think I'm my daughter's grandad (which I find both funny and annoying) because of my age/appearance.

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sree251 · 41-45, M

@zonavar68

My kids will always come first over any romantic relationship connection. if that relegates me to a sexless life I'm fine with that.

Your kids? I though you only have a 6 year old daughter.

zonavar68 · 56-60, M

@sree251 Three adult kids from my first relationship as well. My eldest daughter is 15 weeks pregnant.

sree251 · 41-45, M

@zonavar68

Three adult kids from my first relationship as well. My eldest daughter is 15 weeks pregnant.

Seems like you have had a pretty fruitful life and should hang up your gun. I find guys like De Niro and Al Pacino pathetic. We don't live in the kind of culture that supports human life despite God telling us to be fruitful and multiply. Their kids future security hangs in a balance.

I ran into a wiry spiry old guy in Malaysia. He was in his nineties. He told me that sex kept him fit and healthy. He had sex every night. He had three wives and a bunch of kids like you have: from adults to tiny tots. He was a Malay muslim, and relied on the government for everything. Allah provides as stated in the Koran.

Adogslife · 61-69, M

Funny, I get more looks than ever. I think younger women don’t feel “threatened” because of my age, so they’re more apt to smile and give a compliment.

KymoraChasity · 18-21, F

Hey, its okay. Some women love older men- perhaps you’re just in the wrong area, forums are a great way to find people though, keep it up.😊

Bumbles · 51-55, M

Interesting. I never had it, so nothing to have lost!

SissySecrets · 46-50, T

There a women who appreciate older men very much.

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Ferric67 · M

I'm not old by any stretch, but I have clearly experienced as I've aged, more and more women have become chummier with me. A lot of flirting, and let me tell you, I'm liking the attention.