As I’ve become an older man I feel like I’m now invisible to wonen

When I was a young man all I had to do was smile.

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Dez580 · 61-69, M

Actually, i have experienced quite the reverse. Many women are most happy to approach me as i always act with a degree of decorum and finesse. Being polite and complimentary is a much more sucessful way to seduce than boasting, throwing money about or being arrogant.

zonavar68 · 51-55, M

@Dez580 True but one needs to have the confidence, and when a person has low self-worth/esteem/confidence due to being burnt in the past and not feeling positive about relationships approaching people to start up conversations is quite difficult.

Dez580 · 61-69, M

@zonavar68 That is true, the best way to interact with women is not to have an ulterior motive but just to be friendly. Younger men often jump in feet first and make a pass, instead of talikng normally, no chat up lines or anything as crass as that. Actually many delightful ladies I have met find men who are somewhat shy or a little reserved non threatening and will be friendly towards them. Above all be a good listener and you will be rewarded