4 months after graduation still no job 😭I'm spiraling, I keep losing my confidence 😭 I would be motivated to learn for a while then disappear going back to rut 😭
Same problem as month ago 😭I'm doing better I think unlike before im trying to change a little i started exercising and trying to learn more, I also started finding jobs but looking at descriptions I'm always underqualified, making me somewhat goes to rut again. I dunno
I'm in a rut.I graduated over a month ago, and until now, I don't have a job. I haven't even finished getting all the requirements like government stuff. I don't even study or do any self-study in programming. I just lie down every day watching anime or playing... See More »
It might sound stupid, but I cried because I realized I'm getting old.I grew up in a poor family in a third-world country. For part of my life, I had to live in the province so my mom and dad could both work in the city. When they finally brought me to the city, my mom stopped working and started a small business while... See More »
I'm confused, hurt, and anxious.How do I confront my father about his infidelity? Honestly, my mother and I don't care much anymore as long as we're provided for. The real problem is the ego of the third party, who thinks she's the original. I hate both my father and his mistress,... See More »
Just ranting, or maybe it's my faultI need to rant about my OJT experience. I completed my hours at a company and started in their technical department. Halfway through my OJT, they tasked us with developing a system for the company. The problem is, even with this new task, we were... See More »
Sad about this changeI don't really have friends other than my school friends, but since starting our on-the-job training, we've all separated into different companies. Now, we barely talk, and our group chat is always silent.
What to do with lifeVery anxious, I'm graduating in a few months and I still really don't know what to do with my life. No plans. No skill. No passion. Hope all works well.
Creepy ExperienceI just had a creepy experience, and it's my first time encountering something like this. I don't know if it's because it's 2 am and I'm still not sleeping, or maybe it's too much screen time. But I looked in the mirror, and for a second, it felt like... See More »
Kinda sad about graduatingFeeling a bit sad as my friends and I are graduating after spending two years of college in online classes. We only got to meet in person last year, and now we're already heading towards graduation. It feels like we didn't get to fully experience... See More »
OJT AnxietyStarting our OJT next semester and feeling quite nervous about it. I'm filled with anxiety because, firstly, my resume doesn't look impressive. I'm studying BSIT, and apart from our capstone project, I don't have much to showcase. Unfortunately, even... See More »
Fear of the DarkI've recently developed a fear of the dark. I used to enjoy it, finding it both exciting and calming. I insisted on complete darkness to sleep, even though my windowless room. However, over the past few weeks, my relationship with darkness has... See More »
InconsistenciesI'm currently on summer vacation from school and feeling incredibly bored. I've realized that I spend most of my time in front of screens, either watching YouTube or playing games. So, I thought this would be a great opportunity to develop some new... See More »
Insecure about Future PlansI'm having trouble falling asleep because I'm constantly bothered by thoughts about the future. I'm currently in my third year of college and I still haven't made any plans for what comes after graduation. I also feel insecure about my skills and... See More »
LonelinessI'm currently alone at home as my family has gone to the province for a week to attend a wedding. I chose not to go because I didn't want to skip school, but now I'm feeling incredibly lonely. The silence in the house only amplifies this feeling of... See More »
I'm a terrible person.My cat is dying and I feel like a terrible person for my thoughts and actions. He is only five years old and is sick with an infection, anemia, and liver disease. He is so skinny and slowly wasting away. I tried to bring him to the vet, but because... See More »
Feeling stuck and disappointed with myself - seeking adviceI'm a 22-year-old guy, and honestly, I'm feeling pretty disappointed with myself right now. It's like I'm stuck in a rut and not making any progress in life. I know I'm being lazy and not fully committed to making changes. I've tried to turn things... See More »
