Only logged in members can reply and interact with the post.
Join SimilarWorlds for FREE »

Why do people only care to talk about themselves?

SW-User Best Comment
Usually people will only care to talk about themselves when they don't care about whoever they're talking to and how they're doing. People are selfish.

Carver · 31-35, F
And never once inquiring about you. I always take it as them not being interested in getting to know me yet they still enjoy chatting for whatever reason. I love getting to know people better but no one ever asks about me. Not ever. XD But I can't hold it against them and maybe it's best that they don't try to get to know more about me. Most who do end up leaving but even then, can't blame them. 🤷
Carver · 31-35, F
@Stark Why? 😟
@Carver it was just really sad
Carver · 31-35, F
@Stark 😔
Straylight · 31-35, F
We all have a little narcissist in us. Talk about yourself, I'll listen.
DragonFruit · 61-69, M
People know themselves better than anyone else....I sometimes find myself relating things someone else is saying to something in my own life. It isn’t necessarily that I don’t care about the other person’s thoughts & feelings, it’s just that my own experiences are what I know best.
@DragonFruit well that’s my current case and it’s 90% of the case for me especially with someone I’m getting to know who would we talk about if we don’t know the same people?
DragonFruit · 61-69, M
@Stark In a case like that, I try to listen more than talking....but there’s talking about oneself and there’s talking ONLY about oneself (the latter should be more of a red flag).
@DragonFruit well that’s what I’m talking about the latter 🙄 and I feel like I keep having to explain that.
sighmeupforthat · 46-50, M
i have to or i don't get elected.

:/



see it's like this........................... blah, blah, stuff and community effort, blah, blah, things and your child's future, blah, blah, internships, blah, blah, beer?
yes!

it's miller time!
sighmeupforthat · 46-50, M
rambles now.. mumummblejumbomumumumumuuuummmhUHUhUhuhUhuuuuhh!

😖😬🔙
sighmeupforthat · 46-50, M
@Stark 🔥🤣
Elegy · 46-50
Because they need to unburden-vomit and everyone else looks like an emotion-bucket?
@Elegy that would be a perfect explanation
Elegy · 46-50
It's how it feels sometimes.
Diyanne · F
[c=#003BB2]I think becoz its not good to talk about other people....talking about ourselves is better...[/c]
@Diyanne no one is talking about other people it’s a conversation between me and the other person about ourselves but it’s only one sided
Diyanne · F
@Stark [c=#7700B2]Ohhh okayyy...[/c]
Dusty101 · F
I honestly love hearing about people and what they're at. Yes sometimes the conversation might be one sided at times and I feel "ok are you going to ask how I am?" But I don't read into it too much. As long as I'm not getting pervy shmervy crazy assed messages I'm pretty good with that. ☺☺
@Dusty101 he’s alright. Yeah I suppose thanks for remembering 🙂. How are you? Your daughter ?
Dusty101 · F
@Stark she's loving the floss dance at the moment... all she does floss here and floss there!!! Flossing in the shower and in the pool!!! She's a funny one!!! 💚
@Dusty101 floss dance ?😆 that’s adorable
KaysHealingPath · 36-40, F
Because everyone else’s business is not my business lol 😂
@KaysHealingPath 😐 I’m speaking of when having a conversation with someone..
KaysHealingPath · 36-40, F
@Stark ohhh yeah beats me.
Tell me all about you, I’ll listen.
summersong · F
I don’t know but it really grows old fast.
@summersong it does 😕 I feel like 99% of people are this way.
Cause I'm the most interesting person I know
SW-User
@NunIover It's like I will ever feel anything by fucking me.
You are only drowning yourself in a black hole.

If I use the reflect technic,you will be doomed.
@SW-User what you talking about retard
SW-User
you are right
Thevy29 · 41-45, M
Cause they are as boring as F@#$
SW-User
I... (reconsiders)
juiceyangel333 · 31-35, F
People suck
I don't always talk about myself. I am always fascinated to hear what other people have to say about me.
@puck61 what about what others have to say about themselves?
@Stark It was a facetious remark! Not serious,.
This comment is hidden. Show Comment
SW-User
Because the other person doesn't shares anything about them 😂
StevetheSleeve · 31-35, M
It just happens to be the most interesting conversation topic.
This comment is hidden. Show Comment
Rokasu · 36-40, M
Because I can.
caccoon · 36-40
Cause they know the most about themselves, even if it doesn't feel like it sometimes.
Mrsbetweenfatandfit · 26-30, F
Some people in conversations don’t know how to engage. They’re confused on what’s worth while talking about. They don’t know what to ask and so instead go on and on only about themselves.
@Mrsbetweenfatandfit I always thought it would common to ask what the other person asks. “How are you? I’m great, blah blah” “and you?” Or “what hobbies do you like?” “I like to blah blah” “what about you?”
Mrsbetweenfatandfit · 26-30, F
@Stark it seems to be common sense but many times they answer a question and then forget they should ask
tenente · 100+, M
i heard people who talk about themselves are super smart. oh really? yes, it's true. well I heard people to talk TO themselves are extra sexy. is that a fact? yes and they have lots of money and great sex. stop teasing me. wink. blush.

 
Post Comment