Some days are harder than others

I think we all get in this funk once in a while. Hang in there. You are beautiful and I'm sure your husband still wants you and no one is a perfect homemaker. Maybe he has shit going on.

<<hugz>>

To me it kinda sounds like you are feeling a bit unfulfilled right now. What do YOU like to do? I think you should go indulge in that for a bit you deserve to do the things that you want to do not just living for other people in an auto pilot

Do you want to start in a new career? You should Make small steps and pursue that if that’s what you want 🙂

We all beat ourselves up over being homemakers lol honestly all you can do is reassure yourself you’re doing the best you can and let the anxiety go

It’s hard to make friends but put yourself out there more. You will meet people. Class is always a good way to meet people (piano, ballet, swimming, sports, community college) are all good ways to meet people. Maybe get the kids into more stuff and you can befriend some moms you have something in common with. There’s even apps where you can meet friends like women or fellow moms just to be friends (if you feel safe doing that)

I hope you feel better and have a great day 🫂

Well firstly that's bullshit that you have nothing to offer and the first thing you I think you should to do is discover or rediscover that for yourself.

Fall in love with yourself, genuinely, and love and attention and interest will flow from all over the place, including, hopefully, your husband.

(Secret: I'm a crap housekeeper too. I take comfort in the fact that nobody has said on their deathbed that their greatest regret in life was not keeping on top of the clothes washing 😅).

You have a lot to offer you're just in a dark place right now. Maybe your husband is taking for granted that you'll always be there. Tell him how you're feeling. I hope things get better for you

You are very attractive, it’s not you, it’s probably him

You seem like a dedicated homemaker and it’s 1000 more important than having a career

Cheer up, you will find your happiness soon enough

May not account for much cuz you and I rarely cross paths. We are strangers with entirely different lives. But in sayin so, you also have opened my eyes to things I'd never considered...made me laugh and blindly urged me to curiously open each of your posts. Genuine personality, charisma and character are often rare to find in a crowd. So... I know that this post is focused on things more closer to home....but it terms of " nothing to offer "...I strongly disagree. Js

you were brave to open up about it. I wish for you to find strength again soon.

I bet your little one disagrees.

I’m so sorry. Hug?

Sending love. This does happen after the kids...or during...sometimes jobs and kids and responsibilities get in the way. Also, as he ages, his testosterone levels will decline, and his interest in sex will change...

Hope ya get feelin better this and every post ya make with a pic will and has been wall to wall tellin ya yer a hotty so theres no point in me repeating that

Im sure thats not the case. You have loads to offer. You are awesome.

I hope you will be ok :) sending loads of hugs

:)

That's rough. 😥
Hopefully it's only temporarily and things will be better soon. 🥺

Sounds like a rough patch . I hope it gets better for you .

Sorry to hear this 🙁. I hope you can find a piece of mind ❤️.

It's pretty normal for marriages to run their course. And also friendships typically last about 7 years before they pretty much fade out. As long as we are important to ourselves that is all that really matters.

Sometimes marriage can really feel like hard work. 😞

Have you talked to your husband about it? And If its any consolance, youre not actually that bad. I know of alot worse. What are you greatful for?

*hugs*

Get interested in yourself
Feel lovely, sexy and happy
Will make a bid difference to you!
Then see what happens
Message me if you need to chat

It doesn’t have to be! I would love to be a friend I hope we can chat and know each other

sorry you feel like this i'm sure you are a amazing mother

This is so sad. I understand you though

You seem nice to me, plus looking good.

Not pitiful. Way more relatable than you'll know.

im here, if you need someone :)

I think that couples can get stuck in a rut sometimes, through routine and circumstance, that dampens the flames of passion. You become too task orientated and in the gaps inbetween you just feel too tired to do anything much else. Romance goes on the back burner. Having kids can definitely compound the situation as you begin to feel and function as parents and not as individuals. It can take a change to reinvigorate things. Having time to yourselves as a couple is important. Also important is keeping fit because fitness tends to aid libido. Making time for each other is the most important thing though and it doesn't have to lead to sexual intimacy. Just any form of intimacy is a start.

I understand this so well. I know my husband doesn’t want me. With his words and actions.

That’s where most is my self esteem issues stem from.

I hope it gets better for you.