Some days are harder than others

I think my husband has lost all attraction to me at this point. I can’t remember the last time he touched me, or looked at me like he wanted me. I have no friends left. I have no real career, and yes I devoted 4 years to being a stay at home mom… but I’m not even a great homemaker either.

I feel I have nothing to offer, and I feel very lonely.

Yes this post is pitiful. 🙄

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V00doo · M

Not pitiful. Way more relatable than you'll know.

WaryWitchWandering · 36-40, F

@V00doo I wish it weren’t. Because it truly is sad

V00doo · M

@WaryWitchWandering Have you spoken to him? Im more open to talking to mine when I feel like this. Normall it's me imagining things. Other times we're both stuck in the mundane of every day shit we lose sight of us and ourselves. Do you have a hobby? Something for you?

WaryWitchWandering · 36-40, F

@V00doo yes I have plenty of hobbies, I’m just lonely

I have told him. He said that’s not how he feels. I know he was fed up when I was heavily drinking at night (he was worried). Thing is he was the one in party mode only a couple years back, I was basically single mom for a while bc he did his own thing. Now he is much more involved and working on himself… this time I’m the one who may get left behind.

🤷🏻‍♀️

He never seems to really want to be with me alone anymore. Doesn’t ever compliment or touch or speak about much

V00doo · M

@WaryWitchWandering Loneliness is a fucker. Im sorry

WaryWitchWandering · 36-40, F

@V00doo sucks, because I know I’m not actually alone