Some days are harder than others

I think my husband has lost all attraction to me at this point. I can’t remember the last time he touched me, or looked at me like he wanted me. I have no friends left. I have no real career, and yes I devoted 4 years to being a stay at home mom… but I’m not even a great homemaker either.

I feel I have nothing to offer, and I feel very lonely.

Yes this post is pitiful. 🙄

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SW-User

Well firstly that's bullshit that you have nothing to offer and the first thing you I think you should to do is discover or rediscover that for yourself.

Fall in love with yourself, genuinely, and love and attention and interest will flow from all over the place, including, hopefully, your husband.

(Secret: I'm a crap housekeeper too. I take comfort in the fact that nobody has said on their deathbed that their greatest regret in life was not keeping on top of the clothes washing 😅).

Docdon23 · M

@SW-User I agree. Only recently did i discover that love starts with loving yoruself, and that is in every way!! Great advice.

SW-User

@Docdon23 may she learn it younger than we did 🤞

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Docdon23 · M

@SW-User for sure!! Took me most of my life...but what a difference!!!

SW-User

@Docdon23 I know right!