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Women of SW, do u believe it is ok for women to approach a man first ? 🙂❤️

Or ask a guy for his phone number. I overheard some coworkers of mines the other day. And she said a woman should never ask a guy out or for his phone number ever. EVER ! And I thought, now that's not always true.
It is perfectly fine if you are a modern woman. But not if you are the die hard 🤔👩👦traditional one. It is old school,
I understand. However, times have changed and so has the game. Especially knowing that the divorce rate is so high and the amount of single mothers in the world today. What do you think ladies, and gentlemen too. Should a woman
approach a man first or not. Best answer will surely win. Anything goes.

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Jinxie · 51-55, F Best Comment

Yes, women should feel empowered to take the initiative. Go after what you want.

Zonuss · 41-45, M

@Jinxie I agree.

SW-User

I think it's okay.
I just don't have the balls for that. 😂

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Zonuss · 41-45, M

@DeWayfarer Wonder Woman was a mythical being from the Amazon. 🙂

DeWayfarer · 61-69, M

@Zonuss geesh! Have you never seen the movies or TV shows? She grew up on Paradise Island! Along way from the Brazilian Amazon 😄😁😆😅😂🤣

Just joking! 😊

Zonuss · 41-45, M

@DeWayfarer I was being sarcastic. Seen the tv shows from the 70s a million times.

CestManan · 46-50, F

You ever notice how it is always the best looking members of the human race who want to give dating advice? They do not know the struggles of the rest of us.

It is like when rich people give investing advice. Well yeah it is good for them, they have a butt load of money to work with. What about those of us who are juggling the bills trying ti figure out which ones can be late this month?

Zonuss · 41-45, M

@CestManan 🤔

Jeephikelove · 51-55, F

Absolutely

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Reaverwolf · M

@Jeephikelove sweet, better check it is not the hotline number

Jeephikelove · 51-55, F

@Reaverwolf it was under “weird fucken Brits” 😂

Reaverwolf · M

@Jeephikelove *puffs out my chest and wipes a tear away* so proud

BarbossasHusband · 36-40, M

Ofcourse women can take the initiative too,not just the man.

Slade · 56-60, M

@BarbossasHusband What a concept!

😉

Zonuss · 41-45, M

@Slade Well said

KatyO83 · 41-45, F

Totally

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tallpowerhouseblonde · 36-40, F

@KatyO83 Have you done? Successfully?

KatyO83 · 41-45, F

@tallpowerhouseblonde many times

tallpowerhouseblonde · 36-40, F

@KatyO83 Very nicely done.👌
It's so easy to score with gorgeous guys.

CookieCrumbs · F

I don’t ask for a guy’s number until he asks for mine first.

Instead of giving him my number, I’d say “give me yours and il reach out to you when I have the chance.”

Now the choice whether to talk to him or not rests on me. I don’t have to talk to anybody I don’t wish to speak to. :)

Zonuss · 41-45, M

@CookieCrumbs Interesting. I never ask for someone's number if I am not interested in them. Just saying. Thank you. 🙂

CookieCrumbs · F

@Zonuss
I know asking for one’s number shows interest. But if I’m asked for mine, it puts me in an awkward position to say I’m not ready to give my number to anyone who asks.

Slade · 56-60, M

@CookieCrumbs I give my card in a handshake to keep it subtle. i tell them I want to hear from them.

Sometimes it works😛

SW-User

Women don't really know how to approach men. Much as they complain about how men do it, they aren't any better. Not only that there's an established rule that he who asks pays and women are cheap. They'll boast about their independence but never pay for a date.

Zonuss · 41-45, M

@SW-User Some women actually do pay for men's services and attention.

tallpowerhouseblonde · 36-40, F

Absolutely.I have approached men,asked men out on dates,told men I want to have sex with them, that I want him to fuck me.I got my way with the men too.If we don't push ourselves forward then opportunities are missed.This applies to everything not just dating.
One of my favourite moves is to take off my panties from under my skirt as he is looking my way,walk up to that gorgeous guy I want to hook up with then give him my panties as a gift along with my phone number,even led gorgeous guys away by their hands right there.It's an extremely effective way to score on the dating scene.

Zonuss · 41-45, M

@tallpowerhouseblonde Awesome.

Handfull1 · 61-69, F

Of course it’s ok. Could be missing out on a great relationship while waiting for something that might never happen.

Zonuss · 41-45, M

@Handfull1 Truth be told here today. Thank you. 😊

Beautywithin · 36-40, F

Yes they should, would i personally? No.

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Beautywithin · 36-40, F

@Zonuss Mainly because i I wouldn't have the confidence and I'm old school. I like the guy to make the first move.

SW-User

@Beautywithin 🐔

Beautywithin · 36-40, F

@SW-User 🔔🔚

Punxi · 26-30, F

I be pimpin man hos an slamin Cadillac
doughs for them digits.

But really no. Kinda shy.🤷‍♀️

Zonuss · 41-45, M

@Punxi You don't sound like you are. You sound like a player. 😂

DreamyCrush · F

I see nothing wrong with it, although I'm too shy to do it.

Bklynbadboy12 · 31-35, M

@DreamyCrush I think you can do it with the right motivation

JustNik · 51-55, F

I see absolutely nothing wrong with it. 👍

Zonuss · 41-45, M

@JustNik Hi Nika. 🙂

WendyLopez43 · 26-30, F

Totally.

RebelFox · 36-40, F

I have before and I would again. But I prefer to be chased a bit. Playfully.

Zonuss · 41-45, M

@RebelFox Is that so
Hmmmmmm. 😊

BigImo · 22-25, F

Of course. I do it all the time.

1490wayb · 56-60, M

@BigImo 540-942-47..

BigImo · 22-25, F

@1490wayb what

sspec

Depends on her agenda.
In the professional space, she can't scold the Mr xyz for being weirdly mysterious. So, she can always take the contact to give her piece of mind outside the work area. Rest depends if she is forgiving by nature or buries the matter for her peace sake.

Zonuss · 41-45, M

@sspec 🙄

GunFinger · F

It's totally fine. I do it if I want to.

Jenny1234 · 51-55, F

Yes it’s okay

SW-User

Honestly it's not my style to chase men. If I like them I'm flirty but that's it, and usually if I knew they also liked me.

Bklynbadboy12 · 31-35, M

@SW-User But what if he to intimidated to make the first move but you really like him then what?

Ontheroad · M

Why not? I've been asked for my phone number and to go out and get lunch together. I guess it boils down to what you are comfortable doing.

th3r0n · 41-45, M

I’m all for traditional in most things, but I always thought it was nice for a woman to show interest

Zonuss · 41-45, M

@th3r0n Of course it is.

DeWayfarer · 61-69, M

Just drop in to say it worked! I see your post again! 🥳

FlowersNButterflies · 61-69, FVIP

It's perfectly okay.

Zonuss · 41-45, M

@FlowersNButterflies Nice to see you again .

UpForItNow · 22-25, F

Should be more of it. Pussypix!

Slade · 56-60, M

Of 1,000% course!

REMsleep · 41-45, F

There is nothing wrong with it but I personally find it distasteful and with the way that most guys are I think that its a bad start to things. Sets a tone that I don't prefer. But I can easily show my intrest in other ways. I'd prefer the guy have enough intrest in me to at least ask me out.

Zonuss · 41-45, M

@REMsleep Most guys are ...what. 😊

REMsleep · 41-45, F

@Zonuss If you are a real man and you like someone enough I think that most would try at least a little.

I wouldn't want to set the tone that I will be the pursuer. I've heard men say " oh she wants me etc" and if they don't like her that much they will take advantage.
Almost like you are a desperate woman because you asked them out.

Everytime that I've seen a guy which I thought was so shy or maybe he needed more encouragement it turns out that when the right woman came along he found it in himself to try. I want to be that inspiration or nothing at all to the man that I want.

Most men will take any opportunity easily throwing itself their way because it doesn't happen everyday and I wish to be more of a desired thing and not just a lucky opportunity that came up.

In the natural order of things the male is the hunter and they do cherish something more that they choose for themselves and work for rather than something which fell into their lap.
Thats just my take on the natural instincts of the majority of hetero men.

Zonuss · 41-45, M

@REMsleep Point understood.

SW-User

Yes

Zonuss · 41-45, M

@SW-User Thank you Cat. 🐈

Zonuss · 41-45, M

Let's play devil's advocate here for a minute. Some women believe that if a woman approaches a man she is either desperate or lonely. And that it gives men the advantage over her.
And that if a man really likes you then he will come to you instead. Hmmmmmm. Do you guys agree with this ideology. 🤔

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REMsleep · 41-45, F

@Zonuss I've seen more men take that position than women that if the woman asked him out that she is hard up, easy, or not to be taken as seriously, less virtuous, masculine and all of these negative things. And guess what despite thinking these things they still go for it. Ouch!

REMsleep · 41-45, F

@OldBrit Most women want a man that is manly. So even if you are shy if you are too shy to even speak to me then this is indication of character that I probably won't like over the long term. Thats how alot of women feel.
I mean for a shy guy I will hint, smile, chat with, laugh alot with, make eye contact, offer food but if he can't work with that then I don't want him.

Zonuss · 41-45, M

@OldBrit Right. Some men are shy so sometimes the girl must approach the guy.

Zonuss · 41-45, M

Anybody else have an opinion about this. Old and young. Men and women. 🙂

OldBrit · 61-69, M

@Zonuss if any lady now waited for me they'd be waiting for a very long time.

Zonuss · 41-45, M

@OldBrit 🙂

DeWayfarer · 61-69, M

@Zonuss no problem with it. Yet her method is not gutsy. More feminet.

I have known a few women that had more "ovaries" than she does.

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CestManan · 46-50, F

@iamBen usually the only women that will ask a man out are the women that look like somebody took too ugly sticks and tied them together as a pair of nunchucks and beat the hell out of her with them.

Zonuss · 41-45, M

@CestManan Some do it because they are aggressive or like to sleep around if ya know what I mean. Don't always be the ugly ones either.

LeopoldBloom · M

@CestManan Wow, jealous much?

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