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Women of SW, do u believe it is ok for women to approach a man first ? 🙂❤️

Or ask a guy for his phone number. I overheard some coworkers of mines the other day. And she said a woman should never ask a guy out or for his phone number ever. EVER ! And I thought, now that's not always true.
It is perfectly fine if you are a modern woman. But not if you are the die hard 🤔👩👦traditional one. It is old school,
I understand. However, times have changed and so has the game. Especially knowing that the divorce rate is so high and the amount of single mothers in the world today. What do you think ladies, and gentlemen too. Should a woman
approach a man first or not. Best answer will surely win. Anything goes.

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Zonuss · 46-50, M
Let's play devil's advocate here for a minute. Some women believe that if a woman approaches a man she is either desperate or lonely. And that it gives men the advantage over her.
And that if a man really likes you then he will come to you instead. Hmmmmmm. Do you guys agree with this ideology. 🤔
MrBrownstone · 46-50, M
@Zonuss No
SW-User
@Zonuss I don't agree that it means they're either lonely or desperate, I just think it's out of order.
OldBrit · 61-69, M
@Zonuss I don't see it like that at all. To take an alternative devil's advocate position: What if the guy is timid /shy etc, what if the woman never makes that move and the world's most perfect couple fail to get together?
REMsleep · 41-45, F
@Zonuss I've seen more men take that position than women that if the woman asked him out that she is hard up, easy, or not to be taken as seriously, less virtuous, masculine and all of these negative things. And guess what despite thinking these things they still go for it. Ouch!
REMsleep · 41-45, F
@OldBrit Most women want a man that is manly. So even if you are shy if you are too shy to even speak to me then this is indication of character that I probably won't like over the long term. Thats how alot of women feel.
I mean for a shy guy I will hint, smile, chat with, laugh alot with, make eye contact, offer food but if he can't work with that then I don't want him.
Zonuss · 46-50, M
@OldBrit Right. Some men are shy so sometimes the girl must approach the guy.