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Women of SW, do u believe it is ok for women to approach a man first ? 🙂❤️

Or ask a guy for his phone number. I overheard some coworkers of mines the other day. And she said a woman should never ask a guy out or for his phone number ever. EVER ! And I thought, now that's not always true.
It is perfectly fine if you are a modern woman. But not if you are the die hard 🤔👩👦traditional one. It is old school,
I understand. However, times have changed and so has the game. Especially knowing that the divorce rate is so high and the amount of single mothers in the world today. What do you think ladies, and gentlemen too. Should a woman
approach a man first or not. Best answer will surely win. Anything goes.

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REMsleep · 41-45, F
There is nothing wrong with it but I personally find it distasteful and with the way that most guys are I think that its a bad start to things. Sets a tone that I don't prefer. But I can easily show my intrest in other ways. I'd prefer the guy have enough intrest in me to at least ask me out.
Zonuss · 46-50, M
@REMsleep Most guys are ...what. 😊
REMsleep · 41-45, F
@Zonuss If you are a real man and you like someone enough I think that most would try at least a little.

I wouldn't want to set the tone that I will be the pursuer. I've heard men say " oh she wants me etc" and if they don't like her that much they will take advantage.
Almost like you are a desperate woman because you asked them out.

Everytime that I've seen a guy which I thought was so shy or maybe he needed more encouragement it turns out that when the right woman came along he found it in himself to try. I want to be that inspiration or nothing at all to the man that I want.

Most men will take any opportunity easily throwing itself their way because it doesn't happen everyday and I wish to be more of a desired thing and not just a lucky opportunity that came up.

In the natural order of things the male is the hunter and they do cherish something more that they choose for themselves and work for rather than something which fell into their lap.
Thats just my take on the natural instincts of the majority of hetero men.
Zonuss · 46-50, M
@REMsleep Point understood.