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jackson55 · M
Get yourself some mace.
jackson55 · M
[@ Mace is legal and you can carry it in your purse or pocket. Mace in the face will make him go away. Pepper spray works too.
lasergraph · 70-79, M
Most "normal" people understand how cautious a lone female would be when being approached by any stranger. Those who have been on the streets for an extended period of time have developed a different view. Some even count on lone females to feel intimidated and who might give them money just to get rid of them. That is part of their plan. He counted on you feeling uncomfortable and intimidated. It often works in his favor.
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Phire1 · 51-55, F
@lasergraph I have no idea if this particular person counts on intimidating females in order to get money. This is the second time he's approached me in the parking area. The first time he was flirting and didn't ask for money. He was also walking with two females that time. He reached out to offer to shake my hand but when I engage he held onto my hand a little too long.
How do you know that people who ask strangers for money intentionally intimidate females so they'll give them money?
How do you know that people who ask strangers for money intentionally intimidate females so they'll give them money?
lasergraph · 70-79, M
@Phire1 I write books, create characters and it is my business to know why people do the things they do. I used to have a neighbor that was a drug addict, he hung with that particular group and I listened carefully when they talked. He of course lost the house and is now living on the streets somewhere. It was a broad statement and of course wouldn't apply to everyone, I can't possibly know everyone, but it did apply to those who I was acquainted with.
Phire1 · 51-55, F
@lasergraph Interesting
Neurotoxin · 31-35, M
Ugh not the parking lot hasslers. Reminds me of the time I got yelled at by some random guy at a gas station for no real reason.
Phire1 · 51-55, F
@Neurotoxin Dealt with that a lot - I hear you
rckt148 · 61-69, M
many begging for money live on those streets ,
your view of your surroundings and theirs are not even close to the same
You want to get to the safety of your car or home
To them that is their home ,and as safe as it gets
On his behalf I will say I am sorry he startled you
But his mind set and yours are on 2 different planets
he just wanted the two's and few's to make his life their a little more bearable .
He has had to get bold to do that ,and also deal with the rejection when most people say "Sorry I can't help you "
maybe he thought the "Stink face thing was an ice breaker "
But I am sure he did not mean to scare you ,he was only hustling change
your view of your surroundings and theirs are not even close to the same
You want to get to the safety of your car or home
To them that is their home ,and as safe as it gets
On his behalf I will say I am sorry he startled you
But his mind set and yours are on 2 different planets
he just wanted the two's and few's to make his life their a little more bearable .
He has had to get bold to do that ,and also deal with the rejection when most people say "Sorry I can't help you "
maybe he thought the "Stink face thing was an ice breaker "
But I am sure he did not mean to scare you ,he was only hustling change
Fernie · F
If you're wanting that type of male to understand...ain't gonna happen
SW-User
He is most likely mentally Ill. That's why when I hear " excuse me miss, can I ask you a que..." I speed walk away like " no no no no no..."
Phire1 · 51-55, F
@SW-User He didn't appear to be mentally ill but then again I can't assume that he's not
SW-User
Was that fool on drugs, asking you for money...tut tut.
Phire1 · 51-55, F
@SW-User He might have been. Don't know. He didn't appear to be on drugs
dreamsicle · 46-50, F
A little more info please. Why on earth was he asking for money?
Phire1 · 51-55, F
@dreamsicle Yes I do live in a city area
dreamsicle · 46-50, F
@Phire1 I’m suburban soft
Phire1 · 51-55, F
@dreamsicle I hate living in the city. Always have
We’re you approached or mugged?
Phire1 · 51-55, F
@Quoththeraven I've encountered this particular guy before. The first time he was very polite but overly friendly
@Phire1 I’d not do well with that situation
Phire1 · 51-55, F
@Quoththeraven My point with this post is really about how others approach people
lasergraph · 70-79, M
Phire1 · 51-55, F
@lasergraph LOL
Chickie · F
That's when you call the cops or bring your pocket knife or stun gun if you don't own a gun