This might not be popular, but in my opinion people who say it’s harder to make friends or find partners are the same people who make the least effort

“I’m so lonely” Want to check out that new restaurant after work? “No my fish need feeding”

Fine, die alone.

Coralmist · 41-45, F

Or theres me..who want soo Much to connect and find love, but I feel so inadequate and broken. That I fear a guy will see the true broken me and ditch me. So I dont go😞

uncalled4 · 56-60, M

@Coralmist Or a guy will see that and not be bothered by it.

Coralmist · 41-45, F

@uncalled4 I do hope so. 🐞

AntisocialTroll · 56-60, F

I used to have no problem making friends but I gave up drinking and have never made a friend since.

I'm not religious, AA's not my thing and I have no clue how to find others who don't drink.

WintaTheAngle · 41-45, M

@AntisocialTroll A mate of mine still come on nights out but just drinks non alcoholic beer and mocktails. He’s just about the social side and likes the music and casinos

AntisocialTroll · 56-60, F

@WintaTheAngle I don't enjoy being around people drinking, it's not fun for me.

solitaire · 41-45, F

@AntisocialTroll Yest I had 3 different cocktails and 2 shots. Came home and threw up and felt so sick. I like to get a little tipsy but throwing up is definitely not my cup of tea