Aside from the obvious, it's consistency that matters most to me.

If he's wishy washy or rushing to get me out of the way sometimes, then other times he's patient and present... I don't know which version I'm going to get and I eventually tune them out of my heart. I don't want to decipher someone's mood endlessly and adjust myself to match their energy to make them feel better. I don't want to match energies. I want to be myself and be appreciated and treated with respect because I know I'm a good woman. No rollercoasters.

Liverpool supporter

Support for MAGA/Reform UK/Sverige Demokraterna/Rassemblement National or similar.

If they a Manly Warringah fan..

Being English,Scottish,Welsh, or having that ancestry.

Smoking

I want someone who can handle a manual transmission. I love fast old cars and used to race cars - I'd want to share that with them.

I can't stand people who just sit around. Everyone has goals, regardless of ability.

I'm an outdoorsy person. I'm not looking for someone who lives inside.

That's why I married the person I did. We've been like a fine tuned machine together for the past three decades.

Smoking, No democrats.

If she can’t bait a hook! 🙂‍↔

If they have an overbearing mother, I'm out. ✌🏻

Reciprocity
Consistency
I won't settle for less

MAGA hat. Unless she has a cute butt.

If they're into hard drugs.

Very Extreme liberalism/ socialism

safe sex

Porn addict.

If they don't make enough money to support us both and my besties

I know it when I see it. 👀

Entitlement

No pulse. And wears socks with sandals. I have my limits. 😒

if they have cat allergies

Political ideology

No such thing as perfect...

Tattoos. Facial piercings. Phony boobs.

Smoking 🚭

Smoking, extreme liberal views, disobedience, drug use, improper cleaning.

They wont let me touch the butt 🫪

For purposes of romance ? When I was single .. smokers ,rampant profanity, lack of physical fitness, left wing ideology , treating others poorly ( rudeness and disrespect) ..drug or alcohol addiction… and ….

Not being 6’6”, not having blue eyes , and not being a good dancer 😂

Smoking

they aren't perfect if they cross your views

Someone who doesn’t believe in gentle parenting.

They don't know who Harold Lloyd was.

A woman who does not believe or reverence God. ☺

If they hold right wing views.
Farage,Trump,Conservative views..no way baby..take your shitty opinions away from me.
It's a humongous No No from me.

Lying.

Bigotry/racism/religious fervor

Over-confidence and lack of empathy.

If they are a guy, cheat,

Personal debt. - You don't need collectors calling or your own credit rating affected by association.

Attachments to exes that require exceptions to be constantly made.

Family figures that are a source of control, or needy.

Dishonesty.

Ill mannered

Addictions to substances

Abusive behavior of any kind.

Serious mental health conditions that they refuse to get treatment for or take required medications for.

Lack of motivation

Unkindness to others in general. We KNOW how to treat and speak to others and being a dick isn't cute.

etc

Abuse
Drug addict
Lack of basic manners and curiosity.

Stupidity

Being indoctrinated with religious beliefs. I'm not sure how would that be an otherwise perfect person though since someone like that tends to be influenced in many aspects of life.

Someone who is sexually dominant.

If he goes to a spa to have his body waxed ...and looks like a plastic Ken doll sitting in a cellophane window box in a Barbie movie.

Not shuffling the deck sufficiently.

Smoking
Facial tattoos
To many piercings
Liberal political ramblings
Doesn't like traveling or road trips