If your best friend was cheating on their spouse, and u knew, would u confront them ?
Lets say you had a best friend right. And he or she was cheating. And the person they cheated on was their husband or wife. Would you confront your best friend about it. Especially if you went to school with them both. Or would you just stay out of it altogether. I mean this is your best friend we are talking about here. Comments. 🤔
If my best friend cheats I'm telling their spouse. I was cheated on and cheating is a form of emotional abuse. If my friend hit their spouse in front of me I would call the cops. I don't condone abuse. As someone who was cheated on I know the toll it takes on a person,it's a pain no one deserves to feel,much like physical abuse. If you can cheat on your spouse you are not my best friend. I used to think "It's not my place to say anything" until I was the one people were keeping the secret from.
@TheHammer yup. You state your peace then move on. . I told my guy I didn’t want to be the one he bragged about his sex exploits outside of marriage to. So if you keep doing it , don’t tell me.
Although.. I had a friend I was talking to when I was cheating my boyfriend and she was more like asking me questions and being open and listening to me. I appreciate that, as I remember that, but I would need perhaps a more direct opinion. But I'm afraid that if she were direct with me at that moment, I wouldn't have been able to listen to her and I would distance her.. It was a tough and complicated period of my life, I remember crying a lot every day.
I had a friend that was cheating on her husband for 10 years. I told her I didn’t approve of it and she didn’t stop so because of that and some other things that she was doing I stopped being friends with her. I wanted to tell her husband, but I didn’t. It wasn’t long before he found out anyway.
Yeah I would tell her very bluntly that what she was doing was wrong. I wouldn't tell her husband though. I would expect her to do the right thing and eventually, if she didn't, I think I would distance myself from her because I wouldn't respect her anymore.
Need to at least speak to them. Get their side of that story and try to encourage honesty. I don't think I could be the same around them after that though. If they are willing to betray the trust of a spouse why wouldn't they betray mine?
