They're probably a good judge of character 🤔

Hakuna Matata

I scream and cry and shout to the heavens, OH THE HUMANITY!

Then I pick up the shattered pieces of my life, put on my clothes and move on. They frown on nudity at Wendy’s.

hmmm maybe you think too much of the situation that they are just friendly?

also what are your private chats about? do you aim to monopolize them romantically? and what are the nature of their gift exchanges? perhaps you are overstepping your bounds in being overly jealous possessive them prematurely as a friend or are they romantically involved with you?

It wouldn't bother me.

It's their choice ...no one owes anyone anything on here

*shrug* Maybe because they say it all to you in private?
It wouldn't matter to me unless you have an 'exclusive' relationship / connection and it's been said. Then it would look like they are playing the field.

I don't even think about it. Not like I get a lot of private messages anyway. 🤷🏻‍♂

Take a hint why don't you...

Don't care, it's their business.

I mean, first I would have to notice, meaning, I would need to be stalking others profiles and be checking their gifts, etc.. uhm .. 🤷🏻 I don't do that.
But if it was just brought to my attention by circumstances, and I was getting intimate with the person I was talking to, I would take a step back and reevaluate

I wanna joke about it, but I'll give you an honest answer instead. I mean, they have their reasons. Whether we understand them or not, we either accept them or risk losing them. It might sting sometimes or we might feel left out, but not everything is ours to control. That's just part of caring about people sometimes. 💙

I don’t make comparisons like that. If I want to spend time with someone and they want to spend time with me, that’s great. It doesn’t mean I own them. It doesn’t mean they own me. It also doesn’t mean they owe me. Vice versa.

Weird

Nooooooooo!!!
It would break me. 😢


I was being sarcastic 🫩

They like other people better than me, nothing new

doesn't bother me at all....maybe they share nudes and you don't

May this level of insecurity never find me.

Chatting doesn’t give you the license of ownership.

You shouldn’t compare their activity here with how they interact you. Their online activities are only part of a bigger life happening for them.

You can’t check who they interact with or how they interact with others in their offline life. It will just consume you with envy or even jealousy unnecessarily.

I don’t take it personally. Chats/dms can be VERY overwhelming for some people. I take that into consideration and hope others do the same because I too can easily become overwhelmed in messages and find it easier to just respond on posts and stuff. No one here owns anyone or owes an explanation for how they wish to spend their time here.

I don't have male friends that flatter me here as I definitely not here to date.
I received an occasional gift but I take it as a friendship not as something exclusive.

If you thought you were exclusive and they made it to seem that way then they're a player.

That I don't own the person I'm chatting with? If you are jealous of something like this, then the reason is you need to see a counselor.

The reason is that they don't have your number

They just play favoritism to one person yes it does hurt.

🤷‍♂

I’m not here long enough to know what you’re talking about 😂

1. I dont know who other people privately chat with .
2. They are kind and thoughtful.
3. That im an obtuse recluse and don't involve myself enough to weigh in on those things🤷‍♀