How do you feel seeing someone you privately chat with give attention, gifts, and comments to others, but not to you? What do you think the reason is?

They're probably a good judge of character 🤔

Hakuna Matata

hmmm maybe you think too much of the situation that they are just friendly?

also what are your private chats about? do you aim to monopolize them romantically? and what are the nature of their gift exchanges? perhaps you are overstepping your bounds in being overly jealous possessive them prematurely as a friend or are they romantically involved with you?

It wouldn't bother me.

I scream and cry and shout to the heavens, OH THE HUMANITY!

Then I pick up the shattered pieces of my life, put on some clothes and move on. They frown on nudity at Wendy’s.

It's their choice ...no one owes anyone anything on here

I don't care. They are free to chat to whoever they want to just as I do 🙂

*shrug* Maybe because they say it all to you in private?
It wouldn't matter to me unless you have an 'exclusive' relationship / connection and it's been said. Then it would look like they are playing the field.

I don’t make comparisons like that. If I want to spend time with someone and they want to spend time with me, that’s great. It doesn’t mean I own them. It doesn’t mean they own me. It also doesn’t mean they owe me. Vice versa.

I wanna joke about it, but I'll give you an honest answer instead. I mean, they have their reasons. Whether we understand them or not, we either accept them or risk losing them. It might sting sometimes or we might feel left out, but not everything is ours to control. That's just part of caring about people sometimes. 💙

Don't care, it's their business.

Nooooooooo!!!
It would break me. 😢


I was being sarcastic 🫩

They like other people better than me, nothing new

doesn't bother me at all....maybe they share nudes and you don't

May this level of insecurity never find me.

That I don't own the person I'm chatting with? If you are jealous of something like this, then the reason is you need to see a counselor.

Chatting doesn’t give you the license of ownership.

You shouldn’t compare their activity here with how they interact you. Their online activities are only part of a bigger life happening for them.

You can’t check who they interact with or how they interact with others in their offline life. It will just consume you with envy or even jealousy unnecessarily.

🤷‍♂

I’m not here long enough to know what you’re talking about 😂

1. I dont know who other people privately chat with .
2. They are kind and thoughtful.
3. That im an obtuse recluse and don't involve myself enough to weigh in on those things🤷‍♀