Prince0217 · M
Trust is a big thing. Hard to earn and easy to lose.
The stakes are high and sometimes it's like once bitten twice shy.
I value the commitment to each other. I think despite all that, if we like someone and don't wanna lose them, then the paradigm will shift, 'cos losing that person feels like a lost opportunity, then 'being rly seen by that person'.
The stakes are high and sometimes it's like once bitten twice shy.
I value the commitment to each other. I think despite all that, if we like someone and don't wanna lose them, then the paradigm will shift, 'cos losing that person feels like a lost opportunity, then 'being rly seen by that person'.
lovingdead · 36-40, M
Are you in a process of being seen...by others or yourself? Know that the entity underneath (depending on the length and durration of their birial, confinment, etc) may be rough at first, pale, gaunt,emaciated and frail, having been tucked away and isolated for so long.
But note that they have endured, though sickly looking they are a survivor, all you must do is place them in the open air and allow their roots to unfurl and watch them flourish.
But note that they have endured, though sickly looking they are a survivor, all you must do is place them in the open air and allow their roots to unfurl and watch them flourish.
Very good question.. I definitely have begun to become aware of this distinction lately. Of the hyper vigilant watcher I have had tucked away inside. I know it’s helped me survive, and has kept me safe, but it’s also been functioning through layers of performance and once that is actually removed, who am I beneath all of that really? @lovingdead
lovingdead · 36-40, M
@soulsrespite whoever it is, they're worth getting to know and invest in their happiness
kodiac · 22-25, M
I built so many walls i lost who i really am . If i peel away all the layers i'm not sure what would be left.
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atlantic59 · 61-69, M
@kodiac omg let me be the first to congratulate you AND tell you about all the great wonderful layers just waiting to be revealed
atlantic59 · 61-69, M
You could have a 'reveal' party
kodiac · 22-25, M
@atlantic59 Don't think it would be much of a party
Popobandar4 · 26-30, M
It’s scary for me too in real life , can’t trust anyone to know everything
Takes a lot of trust
Trust in yourself mostly.? @Bexsy
@soulsrespite yes, for sure
Vulnerability is scary
Yeah.. who am I beneath the layers of what I have curated for the world to see? @pituitarypendulum
@soulsrespite and showing it to others
Sequoia51 · 70-79, M
How so?
pride49 · 31-35, M
Same, unless he's a man who wants to take control 😏 ahem, anyways
Sequoia51 · 70-79, M
Why scary?
SinlessOnslaught · M
What is being seen, to you?
Zonuss · 46-50, M
What. Who is that.














