Anyone out there view yourself as more of what/who you ARE??

Versus viewing yourself mainly on what you're NOT?
If so share tips here!!🌺

I truly struggle with it. My mainframe psyche is steeped subconsciously in all that I'm NOT. It would be so refreshing to ever see myself fully as what I AM more than not😟

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Jenny1234 · 56-60, F Best Comment

I accept myself the way I am, For the good and they’re not so good. Because at the end of the day, I can put my head down on my pillow and say I’ve done my best today and I haven’t hurt anyone and I’m an honest person And im a good person and if someone doesn’t like me, that’s on them not me.

Jenny1234 · 56-60, F

@Coralmist thanks for bc

Coralmist · 41-45, F

@Jenny1234 Ty for a positive , reflective reply 🌷

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Maturebate · 70-79, M

It depends on the day- it really is a mood thing. Self talk is important- as the gurus will tell you.
Fortunately I do not rely on others to constantly affirm my worth, but it can be a struggle to find the positive aspects of your life when all you can see are the negatives. We just have to keep trying.

Lilymoon · F

Yeah we always tend to dwell on the NOT.

I sometimes try to put a spin on it like well at least I'm not as bad as THEY are. haha 🫠

Nunlover

I know who I am and I embrace it, maybe I should embrace you?

MentalDisturbance · 36-40

Do you know who you are? Or is that the mist talking.Sounds like it… I can admit I have my disturbances. Can you?

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Miram · 31-35, F

@MentalDisturbance Why would you think that of her?????? How strange to address such remark to someone who already struggles with their self-perceptions and self-esteem.

Miram · 31-35, F

@Coralmist

https://similarworlds.com/fighting-martial-arts/kung-fu/4622677-Gratitude-is-more-powerful-when-it-comes-with-a-good-sense

Both knowing what you aren't and what you are is useful.

Please read this and give it some introspection in relation to your thread. It is what helped me..

MentalDisturbance · 36-40

@Coralmist you’re not who portray yourself to be. You’re connected to mobsters and are one yourself. That’s why I say what I do. You can do what you will with this but doesn’t change the facts.

Julien · 36-40, M

When I was younger I had a pretty good idea of who I was . Getting older I realize that people in general are more complex

JoyfulSilence · 51-55, M

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