Firestarter · 31-35, F
So sorry.
kodiac · 22-25, M
@Firestarter thank you
4meAndyou · F
I had to get a recent copy of my birth certificate a few years ago. All I had was a photo of a photo negative and that's all I had for most of my life.
So I sent away to the state where I was born, sent them $25, told them where I THOUGHT my records might have been originally, because the hospital where I was born was torn down, and 6 weeks later I had an official birth certificate with the state seal. I included a copy of a photo ID and my then current address.
If those folks sent you a COPY of your birth certificate via email, you can print it out and send it to the state where you were born along with a copy of your driver's license.
CALL the State offices first to find out if they need anything else, to avoid frustration.
So I sent away to the state where I was born, sent them $25, told them where I THOUGHT my records might have been originally, because the hospital where I was born was torn down, and 6 weeks later I had an official birth certificate with the state seal. I included a copy of a photo ID and my then current address.
If those folks sent you a COPY of your birth certificate via email, you can print it out and send it to the state where you were born along with a copy of your driver's license.
CALL the State offices first to find out if they need anything else, to avoid frustration.
GeniUs · 56-60, M
Gather as much info as you can about yourself obviously you have your dob, your name (although that doesn't seem to help) what about your place of birth? Anything else you can get? Try searching the net, your birth must be registered, is there a US (I'm guessing that's where you are) government site for births, deaths, marriages. Sometimes you have to do other people's jobs for them if you want a result.
froggtongue · M
Have you done any footwork? Meaning become the investigator with boots on ground. Do you remember where these foster homes are where you lived? You can go to them directly for your search.
Good luck to you. I hope you get that for which you are searching.
Good luck to you. I hope you get that for which you are searching.
How do they not know who you are???
You'll know your placements, so, all they need to do is take some of that data... cross reference it for a boy of the same name and date of birth as you and see what comes out.
Of course, it's possible that your name and date of birth could have been changed and you not remember because you were too young or traumatised to recall it, but it should still be in their records if they ever did their jobs.
You'll know your placements, so, all they need to do is take some of that data... cross reference it for a boy of the same name and date of birth as you and see what comes out.
Of course, it's possible that your name and date of birth could have been changed and you not remember because you were too young or traumatised to recall it, but it should still be in their records if they ever did their jobs.
kodiac · 22-25, M
@HootyTheNightOwl I agree i gave them 3 names abd they told me they can't release info on foster families. They don't want to help .I'm seriously thinking about going public with how the system works others have but no one pays attention to throw away kids
@kodiac Maybe that's what it might take???
It's possible that someone else might see your struggle and be able to step in to help you to at least find out the details you need to be able to get a copy of your birth certificate.
It's possible that someone else might see your struggle and be able to step in to help you to at least find out the details you need to be able to get a copy of your birth certificate.
kodiac · 22-25, M
@HootyTheNightOwl I'm just not sure how to go about it other than posting online
tobynshorty · 51-55, F
Iam going thru the same thing since I moved states. I can’t even get a state ID ecause they can’t prove who I am. There is a ton of things that they require to get it. 😧
kodiac · 22-25, M
@tobynshorty Yes! I hope you have better luck than i am
tobynshorty · 51-55, F
@kodiac it’s just getting worse. Today I found out that one of my bank accounts had been gone into without my knowledge or permission in 2017 and used ATM and even had a dispute with the bank. They took money but I’m sure I will get it back.
exchrist · 31-35
Can u contact the foster families? If you have their names. Or yes you will need a social worker to assist you. Further depending what state you live in the vocational services department might be able to assist. Do you know any details? Did you attend k-12 school of any kind? Those schools should have some record of you.
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exchrist · 31-35
@kodiac last ditch effort and this is a longshot. . . Though you dont consciously remember, your brain was working, observing, and recording from the moment you were conceived and definitely since the moment you were born. Therefore, a hypnotic session might be able to extract details that could provide pivotal information as part of your search. Therefore contact a hypnotist. It might work.
kodiac · 22-25, M
Thanks everyone for your responses, storm knocked out my internet so I'm late responding.
tobynshorty · 51-55, F
@kodiac just wondering can you find anything on US Census?
Can they trust a driver license?
Probably over the phone isn't the best, and it's possible she misspelled it.
I wonder if they could look up by birthday
Probably over the phone isn't the best, and it's possible she misspelled it.
I wonder if they could look up by birthday
Iwillwait · M
I am so sorry Brother.
exchrist · 31-35
Usually the hospital you were born at has a birth certificate and\or the town\city hall of the place you were born. Try that.
exchrist · 31-35
Do you the city you were born in? The hospital in which you were born will have your birth certificate on file or maybe the city\town hall. Try to determine the hospital where you were born and go from there
Coralmist · 41-45, F
Don't give up, it exists somewhere, and you Definitely exist🌻
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kodiac · 22-25, M
@masterofyou I kinda agree, but people need some kind of id to do so much stuff. I could get medical coverage for one thing, that i really need
Musicman · 61-69, M
I am so sorry ☹ You definitely don't deserve this. Don't you have a case manager? Maybe talk to that person.
Coralmist · 41-45, F
I wonder would the police be able to locate it?
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