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Reading his posts here made me emotional.

My bf hasn't been active here recently but he was before I met him. He says the person that he was years ago is not the same as now which is true but I can still see glimpses of that goofy guy I fell in love with despite the hurt and sadness in his old posts. How I wish I could tell younger him that everything will be alright, he would fall in love again, and he can be happy again.

I'm not used to seeing him sad and hurt. For me, he's the strongest person I know.

Reading his thoughts made me cry.

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Iwantyourhotwife · 22-25

Men suffer in silence

Don't let the facade defeat you. We bleed too but press on for those we love. It it seems like he really loves you if that's what you thought. It's lovely

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Queendragonfly · 31-35, F

@Iwantyourhotwife I understand your personal perspective however I'm focusing on the requirements for a healthy relationship.

Iwantyourhotwife · 22-25

@Queendragonfly you're 100% right in vulnerability being a necessity in relationships. It quite literally translates to trust since we feel safe around those we trust, so we become vulnerable

Queendragonfly · 31-35, F

@Iwantyourhotwife Trust yes, but foremost connection. No one can connect with a wall. And without connection the relationship is empty.

TryingtoLava

:( aweee im sorry i havnt seen ya for a year

SW-User

Is he an online bf or do you see him offline? Many people have sad thoughts and feelings. It’s just the way life was meant to be.

emereese · 26-30

@SW-User There are always ups and downs in life. The important thing is we surround ourselves with people that would be there for you no matter what 💗

SW-User

@emereese that is true. 💐

BLP11520 · 61-69, M

I can relate to this so much it hurts

emereese · 26-30

@BLP11520 Hope you'll feel better soon. Wishing you all the best 🥺

BLP11520 · 61-69, M

@emereese thank you

in10RjFox · M

he would fall in love again, and he can be happy again.

What does this mean? You're not his current girlfriend?

If you are not, it's best you keep your thoughts to yourself and leave him alone. His writing habit itself is a therapy and he will soon recover himself.

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rocknroll

@emereese i hope he is ok and that you are to

emereese · 26-30

@rocknroll We are doing well, thank you! 😊 He's over his ex long before we met hehe.

rocknroll

@emereese ok good to hear that

Bleak · 36-40, F

Always be there for him.

emereese · 26-30

@Bleak Always is, and always will 💕

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