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What exactly leads people to start taking drugs? Share your thoughts?

Problems, troubles, struggle and various types of stess, everyone has to face it. The ones filthy rich today, even they had to face all types of challenges once to get to where they are today. Even if you figure out a short-cut to success, it won't be a cakewalk.

Then, why some folks become completely hopeless and find solace in drugs? I don't like drug-addicts at all.

My friend was a drug-addict. Despite the continuous efforts of his family and some friends, to keep him away from drugs, he would figure out the way to buy some form intoxication and be high. He escaped from rehab thrice. He was under the observation of good Doctors and Therapists.

I parted ways with him because I had no other option left. I asked him to choose either drugs or my friendship. He chose drugs. I never saw him again.
calicuz · 56-60, M
1st: Let me say that no matter how hard you try to help someone, they wont stop using until they are sick and tired of being sick and tired.

2nd: Most of us start with casual use. Something we do occasionally, once and a while. Then you find yourself using more often, until one day you realize you're addicted.

3rd: Once addicted the disease takes over and takes control. It doesn't just control the body's physical need and desire for the drug, it controls your mind, convincing you that you'll never amount to much more, that this is it, this all your life will ever be and you may as well accept it. The disease convinces you you're worthless, unable to stop and no will want you now that you're an addict.

4th: I'm sorry you hate me. Because while I'm sober now, I will always be an addict. Being an addict isn't fun, it's not something we want to grow up to be. There were times I asked God why I was chosen to live this life. A life of dependency on Alcohol and drugs. The only thing God kept telling me, every time I asked him was, your the only one you know that would come out of that alive. Everyone you know would have died out there. You are the only one strong enough to conquer such a thing.
So far I am conquering.
calicuz · 56-60, M
@SW-User

I think you judge the individual, and determine if they need jail or rehab.

As far as the war on drugs: Tell me how we can defeat a war machine like the Nazi Army in 1945, yet we can't stop a few "Drug Lords?"
There is no real war on drugs, only rich men getting richer under the guise of a fictitious war.
calicuz · 56-60, M
@Iwillwait

Thank you my friend
calicuz · 56-60, M
@SoLeRiMix

There are different stages to addiction, some are not ready to stop, some are ready, but can't on their own, and some will never stop until they are dead.
Your friend wasn't ready to stop, so he chose the addiction over you.
Continue to pray for your friend, it's all you can do for an addict some times.
SW-User
Underlying every addiction is some kind of trauma someone is trying to escape. Some people tend to choose drugs.
SoLeRiMix · 31-35, M
@SW-User Be it the view-point of medical professionals, I'll respect it but won't buy it.
You are blessed to be rational minded. Not everyone is.
Everyone is born with basic wisdom of judging right and wrong. Before consuming any type of drug, an individual knows that it might turn into addiction later. Yet, the individual costumes it. So, that's the wrong choice he/she made despite a sound mind. That's all I have to say. I rest my case your honour.

You have been nice to me throughout this discussion. I won't discuss it further because we both have set of points that are valid. This debate won't end. My mindset won't change. Likewise, it's for you.

I have no empathy or sympathy for drug addicts. I am sorry but it is like that for me.

I must mention, an individual with will to quit drugs would always have my support and respect. Provided, he's able to get rid of the addiction completely.🙏
SW-User
@SoLeRiMix That's alright. I'm not here to change your mind or anyone elses mind. I'm only sharing what I am aware of. Understanding something just adds compassion, it does not mean you accept it or even indulge it in someone by keeping them around.
Everyone is born with a basic wisdom, the wisdom then can be deteriorated by nurture and environment in such a way that it ceases to exist in the forefront of someones mind. Everyone is also born with a different way and capacity to handle their nurture and environment.
🙏
SoLeRiMix · 31-35, M
@SW-User
Everyone is born with a basic wisdom, the wisdom then can be deteriorated by nurture and environment in such a way that it ceases to exist in the forefront of someones mind. Everyone is also born with a different way and capacity to handle their nurture and environment.
I beg to differ on this one again. Nothing against your perspective. I am fine with it.😇
HeartlessLove · 31-35, M
Im down to earth and my friends were doing it in high school and then asked me so i smoked with them because im down to earth and didn't smoke until it happened again in college now i smoke just to relieve stress
SoLeRiMix · 31-35, M
@HeartlessLove Sorry to hear that. Hope you find something better than smoking.🙏Good Luck!👍
SW-User
the only reason to take drugs is to feel better. people's drug of choice is the drug that takes the physical and/or psychic pain away. it doesn't mean you have to hangout with them, tho
SW-User
@SoLeRiMix maybe not the preferred solution, but it is a choice many people make.
SoLeRiMix · 31-35, M
@SW-User
is a choice many people make
Choice more like a rather is 'Highway to Hell'. This is why it isn't the solution.🙏
SW-User
@SoLeRiMix the solution and reality are sometimes mutually exclusive, yo
Iwillwait · M
Some start as recreation, others to escape, some to numb, the rest want to disappear.
SoLeRiMix · 31-35, M
@Iwillwait Drugs aren't the solution. Never were! Never would be!🙏
DeluxedEdition · 26-30, F
Mental illness and depression. A lot of times domestic violence too
SoLeRiMix · 31-35, M
@DeluxedEdition Drugs aren't the solution to it.🙏 Never were! Never would be!🙏
DeluxedEdition · 26-30, F
@SoLeRiMix nope
SoLeRiMix · 31-35, M
@metaldog Drugs aren't the solution to it.🙏 Never were! Never would be!🙏
@SoLeRiMix knowing your own mind is the solution
SoLeRiMix · 31-35, M
@metaldog In that case, their excuse would be:

My mind told me to take drugs.

😁
Sidewinder · 36-40, M
What leads people to do anything? That's the bigger question, and one without a single definitive answer. A question that has been asked and debated for centuries by psychoanalysts, sociologists and philosophers.
I was addicted to pain meds. I had a bad automobile accident and was put on oxycodone. First Percocet then oxy by itself. I was up to 12 pills a day. I wasn't sure if it helped the pain in the end. I took them because I was addicted. I spent all my time counting pills so I could make it to the end of the month and get a new script. I finally got sick of it and found a doctor that weaned me off of them. Even then, the last few weeks I was so sick. So physically sick I would never go back o them again.
SoLeRiMix · 31-35, M
@WonderGirl1 In your case, it wasn't intentional. More like side-effect of a medical treatment but another Doctor helped you get rid of it. So, you're good. People shouldn't see you as a drug-addict.😇
SkeetSkeet · 100+, F
Life is shit
SW-User
SoLeRiMix · 31-35, M
@SkeetSkeet Varies from person to person.🙏
SW-User
You can not like them

But fundamentally what an adult chooses to put in their own bodies, and why, is their own business

It is like people who judge suicide as weak

Well, yes by your (one person’s) mind frame which is minuscule in the scheme of things (reality)
SoLeRiMix · 31-35, M
@SW-User Masculinity has nothing to do with my thought-process. I have never judged suicide as weak. Robin Williams, my favourite comedian when he committed suicide, I was in a state of shock like his other fans.

No matter what reason or excuse, a drug-addict has for being the way he/she is. I would never be convinced with it. Simply because drugs is never the solution. Never was, never would be!

Adult and their choices, I agree with that but their choices shouldn't effect others. Stealing hard earnt money of family and friends, being in debt and then debt collectors reaching out to the ones they know, they made the choice but who's in trouble later⁉️ Rehab too costs money for treatment but some addicts run away from there. Who pays for rehab, family or friends? Who loses the money for nothing? Family and Friends.

This is why I do not like drug-addicts.

 
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