Is this really how people see me here?

@Yulianna Exactly....❤

@Yulianna Love you. 🖤🤗😘

@JustGoneNow ❤❤you ❤❤

@GabbySA8 I thought he and I were at least cool with each other. His comment was very hurtful. I’m not a predator at all.

@Keepitsimple 🖤🤗

@JustGoneNow I wish I knew who it was so I could demonstrate for him personally what a predator looks like. 😐

@sarabee1995 Absolutely yes!

@SimplyMeChantou It would probably be different if she was on here because then it would be “our” community… and I never flirt with other people in person for the same reason. In person it would hurt her feelings and I’m not about that at all. I love her.

@CountScrofula I don’t blame her at all. Hopefully, I’ve been very clear that she has zero blame in this. I truly hope you aren’t as well calling me a predator, though. You aren’t… are you?

@PepsiColaP Thank you for sharing your story here and being honest about your feelings and to give honest feedback to someone. I bet that was hard to do.

🤗 I hope it helped for you to address an issue from.the past and for Darkheaven to apologize for making you feel uncomfortable in the past. I'm sorry if I came across a bit gruff and for sort of butting in. I don't mean to imply that I'd excuse anyone's behavior or victim blame. That being said, I know better then to jump in with a bunch of questions and should have started off with compassion and just listened. I failed to do that right off the bat, and probably.made it more difficult for you to share. I apologize.

You both have have valid feelings and reasons for them. And it's always good for people to share their side of a situation, it's a good way to learn to be in someone else's shoes and learn from it . I'm sorry both of you have felt hurt from this. But I hope peace, and learning and good things can grow out this talk??? Idk.

I'm probably being an idiot, who made this worse. I've had way too little sleep over the past month. I'll butt out now.

@Scribbles it’s cool. I do not blame her at all for the situation. She has no blame in it and I do aplogize that my comments made her feel that way.

@ShadowSister I still want to be careful, to not make it look like I blame her for the situation. I don’t. She’s 0% to blame. It’s not fair of her to call me a predator, however. As I’m not.

@JustGoneNow I agree

@ShadowSister just something to think about. 🖤

https://similarworlds.com/uncategorized/4432012-So-lets-talk-about-consent-and-victim-blaming?rid=53506548

@Grateful4you ty, David. Be well. 🖤🤗

@SW-User I’m pretty sure he is. He’s been here longer than me even.

@SW-User It doesn't really matter what he is or (perhaps more accurately) what he says he is.

@JustGoneNow I understand, it is always more impactful when someone that we thought we had connected with in some way turns out to be not the person that we imagined them to be.

However, as I said above, don't let him, her, it question yourself.

@room101 just makes me sad. I’m a victim of sexual abuse, not a perpetrator. With my history… it made this extra hurtful.

@latinbutterfly 🖤🤗🦋

@bijouxbroussard somebody pointed out from the thread that based on after comments, that he might have not meant it at all in full context. That’s fair but extremely poor word choice.

@Penny 🤷‍♀️

@SW-User 🤷‍♀️

@lovelywarpedlemon I honestly think I’m at a disadvantage sometimes here because I’m not in the gossip crowd. I never liked that stuff but apparently they sure the fuck do talk about me.

@lovelywarpedlemon And I like you too. I’ve always thought you are a very decent person. And enjoy your replies.

@JustGoneNow i got invited to 1 but i was so disgusted i never interacted with them. when i joined their discord i thought it was just a chat group. but it was all the most popular users here talking shit about everyone..... people considered nice & good here as well. they're actually just a pack of animals. but i like you too.

@Dusty101 It was the person I had blocked a long time ago, and you told me I should give him a second chance. I honestly thought he and I were at least cool. The comment was very hurtful. Love you. 🖤🤗

@JustGoneNow oh no... I'm sorry, so sorry... 😢

@Dusty101 it’s okay. he was more cruel to me the first time when I had blocked him, so I knew he was capable of this but I just thought were cool. I don’t blame you. 🖤🤗

@JustGoneNow You're not a bad person, not at all. 🤗

@Foxes Love you. 🖤🤗

@JustGoneNow Love you too. 💕

@being

@JustGoneNow exactly that ⬆️🔼🧡

@Piper However, I don’t want to make people feel sexualized without their consent, so I may need to do some self reflection based on one of the comments.

@Piper I don’t think I’m a predator either but after some things coming to light… I’d definitely have some culpability moving forward.

@robb65 🦋

@sarabee1995 🖤🖤🖤

@sarabee1995

https://similarworlds.com/uncategorized/4419362-The-audacity-Me-Ive-never-had-an-orgasm-from-sex?rid=53314899

He deleted the part where he got mad because somehow he has misread something I said as saying he sent me pervy texts, but I didn’t really talk about him at all. I just was defending myself is all.

@adorbz It really made me sad. If anybody would know if I’m a predator, it would be you. We talk sometimes multiple times a day, and not just on this site. I feel like guys can talk sexual all they want, but the moment we do… we are basically whores. It just sucks. Love you. 🖤🤗

@Jlhzfromep ty

@fun4us2b ty

@Ferric67 It means a lot. Anytime that I positively impact someone that feels good to me. I’d rather bring peace than pain.

@Ferric67 so ty for returning kindness in kind.

@Classified yeah. 🤷‍♀️

@Quoththeraven I appreciate that bro, but I think I do need a little self reflection based on a comment on this thread. I want to be better. Be the change you wish to see in the world.

@JustGoneNow

@Quoththeraven lol

@ScarletWitch NVM. He's a d!ck. Period! .

Don't let that guy put you down. We all know you are not.

@ScarletWitch ty, sweetie. It just brought up a whole lot of negative emotions. Love ya, girl. 🖤🤗

@SW-User yeah

@Iwillwait ty 🦋

@TurtleEclipseOfTheHeart We worked it out. I think he ended up going in a direction that he didn’t intend, but he did apologize.

@VirginMatchmaker it’s not like I’m hooking up with people at all. It’s literally just on public posts and half the time she’s reading over my shoulder.

@JustGoneNow exactly. Just ignore the idiot who upset you.

@AbbySvenz Like, how do you even dangerous flirt. I must have been doing it wrong all this time. You will have to help teach me, as currently my flirting is apparently at epically dangerous levels.

Maybe it’s like running with scissors..? 🤷‍♀️@JustGoneNow

@AbbySvenz we should all collectively make a vow to not flirt while running with scissors. Excellent suggestion.

@vetguy1991 I thought I was too. I do think I may need some self reflection on this, though.

@SW-User I’m a victim of sexual abuse, not a perpetrator. With my history, the comment was especially hurtful. I’m just really sad about it.

@JustGoneNow yes, that's what I was alluding to

Someone once accused me of something special and as an abuse survivor the feeling was... shock and profound sadness

It was so far off I feld cold though I should rightfully have been furious

@SW-User same. I’m just sick.

@Pinkstarburst Very good advice. I agree.

@Pinkstarburst @SweetMae 🖤

They are the ones that know which buttons to press to hurt you @JustGoneNow

@Scribbles 🖤🤗

@braveheart21 just made me sad.

Thats all they want love... Miserable little fucks they are so they try to hurt others.... Try not to give them the satisfaction of seeing you react @JustGoneNow

You got plenty of us out here to make you smile... 🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗😘@JustGoneNow

@kodiac I’m a victim of sexual abuse, not a perpetrator. With my history, the comment was especially hurtful. I’m just really sad about it.

@Belladonna ty 🖤

@Harlow ty 🖤🤗 a little self reflection on my part isn’t bad either, though.