When you did you realize that you're better off alone?

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When you did you realize that you're better off alone?

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pjeffries85 · 36-40, M

I don't know that I'm better off alone, but I often believe that the people around me would be better off without me.

polyandrym66 · 70-79, M

It hurts me to see this thread and to read the comments from all the woman here who have suffered so much in relationships that they THINK they will be better off living alone than with the comfort of a partners arms around them and a snuggling partner in bed at night.
If you are one of those who suffered, please keep your arms and hearts open for love. It is worth the trouble to get there and enjoy the rewards.

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polyandrym66 · 70-79, M

@4meAndyou WOW.. How old are you, to have accomplished so much. I'm 69 and still working on mine..

4meAndyou · F

@polyandrym66 Some people look for their fulfillment in others, and some look for it within themselves. Until you find your own peace within yourself, you will never be fulfilled.

polyandrym66 · 70-79, M

@4meAndyou I totally agree with you, and would add that you cannot truly help others or love others until you are happy with yourself first.

4meAndyou · F

2008. That's when I realized I still had years of life left to me and I didn't have to spend them all suffering.

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berangere · 80-89, F

@4meAndyou Narcissists are cowards they attack the vulnerable,they are cowards and bullies.

SW-User

Mind games, glad your safe now 😊🥰@4meAndyou

SW-User

@berangere

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SW-User

When I realised I was giving up my happiness to keep him happy..

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SW-User

No going back, never ever again, one long hard lesson... so sad I really truly did love him....
He completely killed it. 🙄😞 it feels good to know it’s going to be a fresh start. ☺️😊@berangere

berangere · 80-89, F

@Jester1987 Yes,you could put it that way,they certainly can give up what is yours and that includes your money.

berangere · 80-89, F

@SW-User Yes, narcissists do not know what they have lost,but again they are such fake people they would not know,they lack those emotions.

Jester1987 · M

It's more peaceful as alone but it's lonely as well. We have to find those people you know who just hang out with you, don't judge much, and we all are just chilled every time having peace and fun in our lives?

SW-User

Each relationship I have ever been.. men have been so bad till I decided to be all alone.

berangere · 80-89, F

@SW-User Yes, I too tended to be attracted to that kind of men,this is because I came from an abusive "family"and never developed boundaries and accepted abuse when I should have run.You tend to go back to what you are used to.

suchaslife · F

08/January 2019.

Casheyane · 31-35, F

@suchaslife Wow. That's very specific. I was thinking more on the experience side though

suchaslife · F

@Casheyane oh...I stopped caring for a selfish person

english · 56-60, M

I dont know if its better off its certainly no worse both have their pros and cons, personally i love my own company ,🙂

Aidan · 26-30, F

December 2017

sometimes you just gotta go home and leave them.

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