Whats the use?

Sometimes I have to find things to do with myself, but its hard. So I plan things with friends. Because if I force myself to do things with people then I wont retreat. But then people cancel on me and ive been in bed for two days not wanting to do anything because I dont know how to feel better. Whats the use of feeling better?

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VomitingWords Best Comment

Spend time in nature. Try to get some fresh air and take everything you have to get yourself out of the house.

You can learn a lot about yourself when you're alone. Go for a hike and take a good philosophical book.

Of course making plans with people obligates us to go out, but let's try harder to push ourselves to do these things for ourselves.

I, too have wasted far too much time contemplating how I'd get out of bed.

Get up and get yourself ready.

Picklebobble2 · 56-60, M

As long as you have your bed to retreat to why would you bother making the effort ?
Get up and do stuff that nourishes you !!
Go for a walk. Have a long bath. Indulge your childishness !

EnchantedAzy · 26-30, FVIP

@Picklebobble2 I usually can... but I just feel like im stuck :( I just don't have the will to do anything

Picklebobble2 · 56-60, M

@EnchantedAzy I so GET this !!
I spend my week looking after folk who can't look after themselves. Then i'm a p/t carer for my mother during the evenings.
Stuck isn't the word !

But if you have nobody who is dependent on you, parent/kids etc. This is the time when you really need to get out there and live life !!
Whatever it is. Music/theatre/cinema/gym/architecture/ANYTHING !!

AllTheMissinNo · 31-35, M

Hehe welcome to life. A place where everthing is born to suck

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