Whats the use?

Sometimes I have to find things to do with myself, but its hard. So I plan things with friends. Because if I force myself to do things with people then I wont retreat. But then people cancel on me and ive been in bed for two days not wanting to do anything because I dont know how to feel better. Whats the use of feeling better?

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Picklebobble2 · 56-60, M

As long as you have your bed to retreat to why would you bother making the effort ?
Get up and do stuff that nourishes you !!
Go for a walk. Have a long bath. Indulge your childishness !

EnchantedAzy · 26-30, F

@Picklebobble2 I usually can... but I just feel like im stuck :( I just don't have the will to do anything

Picklebobble2 · 56-60, M

@EnchantedAzy I so GET this !!
I spend my week looking after folk who can't look after themselves. Then i'm a p/t carer for my mother during the evenings.
Stuck isn't the word !

But if you have nobody who is dependent on you, parent/kids etc. This is the time when you really need to get out there and live life !!
Whatever it is. Music/theatre/cinema/gym/architecture/ANYTHING !!