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How do you deal with rejection?

I was rejected today. In the past I would have let that lead me down road of depression. Today I shrugged it off.
Wurkoutgurl · 46-50, F Best Comment
I just walk away whistling 🖕✌️

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FurryFace · 61-69, M
its one of the reasons i can't panhandle , because i care what people think or say to me and it can hurt me , but others seem to be ok with it because they just don't care or have a conscience
Belladonna · 41-45, F
I expect it, so I no longer bother putting myself out there.
Arian · 26-30, F
@Belladonna It is okay I didn't take it personal.
TallJames · 46-50, M
@Arian think definition of alpha male then apply to gaming. Is easiest way to explain it. I was accused of playing for someone without their consent. Which is bs the girl did not take enough damage from the serial killer and I told her twice. She either didn’t hear me or ignored me. So I just made the adjustment for her. She died the very next turn.
I’m just stickler for the rules.
SW-User
@TallJames then my guess works...
Nobody28 · M
Try to ignore and avoid the woman in quistion
Nobody28 · M
@Arian ok?
Arian · 26-30, F
@Nobody28 I'm not sure if i was clear. I mean it is up to you how you handle rejection.
Nobody28 · M
@Arian oh now I do
SW-User
Good.

I mostly stay single now because I don't feel ready again for a relationship, yet. And the fear of rejection sends shards of fear down my spine, reminding me of depression I've had before I don't need now.
SW-User
It's a worthless emotion, only causes more upset. 0 fks given.

I'm pleased you are able to see above the need for acceptance as an individual. It's a strong trait and will serve you well.
VolpeTredici · 31-35, M
It's no big deal. To each their own. Maybe job related stuff would piss me off.
Arian · 26-30, F
@VolpeTredici I find myself in a place now where nothing out of my control gets me down.
VolpeTredici · 31-35, M
@Arian That's very good. As it should be.
SW-User
@Arian As long as you are open to new things?
AngelKrish · 26-30, M
Thats reason i don't except much from anyone on sw or on real life! Because i know who rejected me for any reason is lossing its own way 😎lol!
Deadcutie · 18-21, F
I don’t have to, the dead can’t say no..
scorpio611 · 41-45, M
The one who rejects isnt worth of me
PotPrincess1 · 36-40, M
Rejection isn’t in my vocabulary
YouCanCallMeDan · 41-45, M
Sometimes I overreact
good for you! at least you tried and you wonder wonder "what if"

and while it is a personal rejection it isn't intentional - we can't choose who we are attracted to.
SW-User
I give them credit for their wisdom if they reject me. If someone doesn't, then I warn them that it'll be their doing
I don't. Get respected, not rejected✌️
Feel bad briefly, then move on.

 
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