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Do men get creeped out when women are too comfortable with our sexuality? I've noticed that when I act too bold and kinky they start avoiding me. When

I act shy and timid they will keep chasing me🤔
TexChik · F
Lots of men are intimidated by strong willed, confident, intelligent, sexual women. Many men don't understand that when women openly act like that, they are giving them the green light.
SW-User
Not all are intimidated though @TexChik. As no doubt you are aware. And I recognize you stated most, not all.
TexChik · F
@SW-User Yep, at no time did I mention my husband. He's the MAN! 😌

🤣
SW-User
@TexChik i didn't doubt that. Haha
Whodunnit · M
There's definitely something to be said for the thrill of the chase, but I personally prefer someone being more bold and upfront (not that it happens very often, lol)
ravenwind43 · 51-55, F
Personally, I think men like confident women (in terms of anything including sexuality) more as an "idea" than actual practice.
Being confident in my own sexuality has never encouraged more interest from men.
Northwest · M
A self-confident man would welcome it. As an aside, why would anyone hide their desires? Life is too short.
Snuffy1957 · 61-69, M
I LOVE women who are extremely comfortable with your sexuality and not afraid to show it!
biandlargeny · 56-60, M
Personally I appreciate a woman who can be open about her wants and needs
Axelerator · 26-30, M
It depends on the guy tbh. But i imagine the reason it scares some guys away is the implication that for a woman to be very bold and kinky, means she also has had a lot of sexual experience to explore that side. Whether true or not, some guys love the idea of it, and some are right away repelled, and leave to keep looking for the shy innocent girl.
wonkywinky · 51-55, M
Even in modern times i think men are freaked out by forceful women.
I once had a relationship and the night we decided to sleep together,she became like a sexual werewolf.
She was a different woman,i was actually a bit spooked.
The first time you hear your girlfriend say something like"just get that big f*****g thing stuck in me"it really changes your view of her.
SW-User
Hmmm, I wouldn't have thought so. I happen to like when a woman has the confidence to be herself. Especially when bold and out there. Kinks? They don't in general bother me.
DunningKruger · 61-69, M
Some men are intimidated by a woman expressing her sexuality. Other men wish more women would do so. And a few men wish there were more expressive, kinky women in their lives.
SW-User
Nothing wrong with knowing what you want. I think they may believe that a woman here who is sexually aggressive is a man catfishing them.
Pretzel · 61-69, M
I remember when I was younger a couple of "forward" women freaked me out.

I still chase women - just can't remember why
Snuffy1957 · 61-69, M
I've always been attracted to bold and kinky women.. the ones that shy away from you just leave more for me😎
DearAmbellina2113 · 41-45, F
It doesn't matter how you act, there will always be thirsty dudes who will pay attention to you no matter what.
samueltyler2 · 80-89, M
I have, at that nes, felt panic when a woman seems to be flirting with me, a heterosexual panic!
330GTC · 56-60, M
Pleasant change of pace. I'm easy and I would like to know what that is like when the shoe is on the other foot
gdon39 · 41-45, M
If they avoid you then you would intimidating them. Personally I love and all the better sex comes from that
Miram · 31-35, F
Some do. It is the fear of not amounting to your previous experiences and being enough.
Guys like it. They just don't know how to respond and are embarrassed about it.
throughTheMotions · 51-55, M
Sounds like the dudes you are chasing lack confidence.
MrMonnyPenny · 22-25, M
I don’t get creeped out by it
GovanDUNNY · M
Please tell me more you Goddess YOU
bobhall5868 · 56-60, M
Only insecure idiots!
Winston335 · 56-60, M
The bolder the better
[b]Some[/b] men might. Thankfully, not all.
DDonde · 31-35, M
Depends on the guy I guess, but I've never had an issue with it.
SW-User
In my dreams

 
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