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Why no one talks to me?

I’m at uni, my second day , and no one talks to me , they look, but don’t talk, they act like i’m a weirdo , what should I do?
iamnikki · 31-35, F
Smile
If they are sitting nearby, maybe introduce yourself
Ask a question: what's your major, who's your favorite professor so far?
Join a campus club. If you are there at the start of the club, it's easier to make friends. It's kinda like that everywhere.
@iamnikki Clubs are a good idea.👍
eyeno · M
Take the time to initiate conversation even with strangers.
For me it balances it all out .

Alone by choice lonely never, I've God at my side.

People are not as forward and friendly as they have been in the past, just go about your business and people will start to come around.
Make the first approach? I’m a bit older and tbh I learned that you’re not the only one who is afraid to make the first move. Sometimes you have to take the risk of rejection.
smiler2012 · 56-60
@kittysad 🤔no need too worry i would think it is early days when people get too know you . do not be in a hurry it all will come with time and patience 🤗
Fertilization · 36-40, F
It’s same with majority of the people out there.

Nothing to worry about

It takes time to get into friendships.
plungesponge · 41-45, M
Dress up in a mascot uniform and hug people, they sound boring and in need of hugs
YMITheWayIM · 46-50, M
Focus on your studies for now, people will come in go regardless.
daydeeo · 61-69, M
Relax. Its only the 2nd day. Dont be too discontented, you don't want to give off a vibe of desperation.
It's amazing how a smile can change someone's (yours or theirs) countenance.
itsok · 31-35, F
Have you tried starting conversations and you get ignored?
@kittysad Sorry, I should have read your post better. When my mother was secretary at a small private two year religious college, she was also the activities coordinator and had student assistants, maybe You can volunteer for something like that, it's a great way to meet other new students :)
CestManan · 46-50, F
@kittysad Do they stick out their tongues and stuff?
iamnikki · 31-35, F
@kittysad plenty of people are going to be new with classes just started
Sorry to hear that.
I hope it improves.
I think that the first few days it takes people time to open up.
Good luck
Don't let your worry control how you view it.

It's only the 2nd day.

Tomorrow, emphasize smiling, etc.
Wolffy · 56-60, M
Calm down relax take your time and be friendly but all you can do to be honest
MarkPaul · 26-30, M
You need to approach people with a smile and a hearty "hello."
cherokeepatti · 61-69, F
Some people are shy in new environments.
HannibalMontanimal · 26-30, M
Have you tried talking to them ?
GuyWithOpinions · 31-35, M
Put a smile on and say hi 👋
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