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My body is in so much pain

Its like my baby bump is crushing me. My hips and back cant take the weight of it. I hate this. How do you moms cope?
Starsandfire · 31-35, F
It’s not much consolation but you’ll feel immediately better when baby comes out. I couldn’t get up the stairs with my second. She was over 10lbs and breech. So I get you and I sympathise!
Starsandfire · 31-35, F
@DarkSideoftheMoon I use nutramigen on prescription for Vi, but I don't know the options for not in the uk. Yeah, worth a try! Or you might get a totally placid, content one. Might happen 🤣
DarkSideoftheMoon · 31-35, F
@Starsandfire god help me. Im just so fortunate to be in the uk and have the maternity leave time to really focus on this stuff. Im on maternity now at 34 weeks and im telling you idk what i would do if i had to work like this. Its terrible and everyone does it. Then having to return back to work so soon. If i was back home in the states id be so stressed out
Starsandfire · 31-35, F
@DarkSideoftheMoon yes! So lucky to have the nhs and decent maternity time off much of the time.
Starcrossed · 41-45, F
I had to sit on a balance ball like most of the last 3 months.
DarkSideoftheMoon · 31-35, F
@Starcrossed i actually was thinking of trying the ball. I need to look into that
I’ve never had a child. I have no clue. Good luck and stuff, beautiful. 🖤
DarkSideoftheMoon · 31-35, F
@JustGoneNow thanks babes
@DarkSideoftheMoon of course, sweetheart. Wishing you peace and rest. 🖤🤗
JestAJester · 31-35, M
Id assume by taking it out on your hubby lol
DarkSideoftheMoon · 31-35, F
@JestAJester i tell him all the time hes got it too easy
JestAJester · 31-35, M
@DarkSideoftheMoon well hubbys are suppose to spoil their pregnant wives or so im told.
DarkSideoftheMoon · 31-35, F
@JestAJester hes good but its 3am here now and i dont want to wake him. I just slapped a heating pad on my back and made some tea and thats helping. I was in pain all evening and he was rubbing my back and ordered food for us so I didn't have to cook. then i decided to just call it a night at like 8pm because i couldnt cope with the pain and discomfort anymore. I think he played fifa and took out the trash, tried to tidy up a bit and went to bed too so it was nice he did some cleaning
Whyme · 46-50, M
Sounds pretty uncomfy
Whyme · 46-50, M
@DarkSideoftheMoon glad theres some relief the preg stage and waking up constantly to feed i dont think is tons of fun but toddlers are awesome so ya got that to look forward to
DarkSideoftheMoon · 31-35, F
@Whyme yeah theres so much i look forward to but also so much im worried about
Whyme · 46-50, M
@DarkSideoftheMoon oh it will be ok im sure
NaturalBeautyQueen · 41-45, F
When the body says “rest” you rest. Heat pads are your friend.
DarkSideoftheMoon · 31-35, F
@NaturalBeautyQueen omg yes they are love them 😍
AlyAngel · F
Heating pad helped when i was pregnant, warm baths
DarkSideoftheMoon · 31-35, F
@AlyAngel ok ill try the heating pad thx
samueltyler2 · 80-89, M
Massage helps!
DarkSideoftheMoon · 31-35, F
@samueltyler2 ugh i could go for that
DownTheStreet · 56-60, M
Ouch ouch ouch
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
It’s really tough. My pelvis started to separate with my last baby. How many weeks are you?
DarkSideoftheMoon · 31-35, F
@iamonfire696 thanks so much. 🙏 thats really inspiring to read and im glad ur ok now
DarkSideoftheMoon · 31-35, F
@AlyAngel yeah i may do the same lol
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
@DarkSideoftheMoon thank you 💞
Have your guy push your hips together while you're kneeling. That will take some of the pressure off and bring you relief. He can use tennis balls to massage your back.
DarkSideoftheMoon · 31-35, F
@aboveaverageaveragejoe oh i need to google that so i can visually see what you mean by pushing my hips together. I need to work on pain management for when labour comes so that sounds like a great technique
@DarkSideoftheMoon https://www.bellybelly.com.au/birth/double-hip-squeeze-what-is-it-and-how-is-it-used/#:~:text=To%20find%20the%20proper%20placement,her%20back%20toward%20her%20shoulders.
DarkSideoftheMoon · 31-35, F
@aboveaverageaveragejoe i forwarded that to my hubs. Were trying that when he wakes up 100%
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DarkSideoftheMoon · 31-35, F
@Darksideinthenight2 cheesecake factory !!!
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DarkSideoftheMoon · 31-35, F
@Darksideinthenight2 my fav is the original cheesecake with strawberries extra strawberry sauce 😋

My ex was a server there and hed bring me free food and cheesecake all the time.

 
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