Justmeraeagain · 56-60, F
Arrow17 · F
@Justmeraeagain I don't know how to move forward. I wasn't born in this country. I am scared of living cost in this country without a job. My neighbour has a small kitchen changed entirely and it cost the couple £10000 including workmanship. They change the ceiling and floor as well.
Houses in my home town will cost me between £10000 - £60000 for 2 to 4 bedrooms. The renovation will not cost me £10000 for fitting a new kitchen. The kitchen and labour may cost £300-£500.
Houses in my home town will cost me between £10000 - £60000 for 2 to 4 bedrooms. The renovation will not cost me £10000 for fitting a new kitchen. The kitchen and labour may cost £300-£500.
Justmeraeagain · 56-60, F
@Arrow17 I was the same way in the beginning I didn't know how to move on.
If you can settle your mind down to take one day at a time ,one problem at a time, before moving on to the next and not worry about the future so much it does help.
I know at this time it probably feels almost impossible
If you can settle your mind down to take one day at a time ,one problem at a time, before moving on to the next and not worry about the future so much it does help.
I know at this time it probably feels almost impossible
PatientlyWaiting25 · 46-50, F
Sorry you're in this awful club too, I'm reaching out because I felt that way for a really long time. Almost a year in fact. I stopped caring about my appearance really. I felt that my husband wasn't here to see me so it didn't matter whether I was attractive or not. I lost any interest in sex and I also gained a huge amount in weight. It will be two years this August since my husband passed and I'm slowly getting my mojo back, I still have bad days and struggle especially at night time but I'm fighting to keep living because I know my husband wouldn't want me to give up. And I love Linkin Park, they have such a raw emotion to so many of their songs so you'll often find me belting them out. No surprise that a lot are about loss and grief. You should sing your heart out, whatever helps in the moment is good I think. It gets you through to the next day. Hugs to you lovely lady xx
Arrow17 · F
@PatientlyWaiting25 I lost interest for sexs as well.
PatientlyWaiting25 · 46-50, F
@Arrow17 it will come back when you're ready to let it. Grief never disappears completely but I think with time, we learn to slowly build our lives around our loss so it no longer feels like it's the only thing that defines us.
EldritchFox · 41-45, F
GeminiRain · M