Justmeraeagain · 56-60, F
NeddyKelly · M
@Justmeraeagain I hope you are doing much better
Justmeraeagain · 56-60, F
Arrow17 · F
@Justmeraeagain I will meet him again one day if I go to heaven.
whowasthatmaskedman · 70-79, MVIP
It doesnt have to be a death that separates you from a spouse. My wife is in care with dementia. And it has reached the point where I have completely lost who she was. But she is still here and I still owe who she used to be all the love and loyalty she ever deserved, and I feel the need to visit her most days, even though she can be verbally aggressive at times. Although older, I would love to "move on" but I cant. I need to stay close..Abandoning her after 50 years is just not an option..😷
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Easygoing1234 · 46-50, MVIP
@whowasthatmaskedman it's great you can think this way. You are right 50 is a gift. It's still hard though
CreyvinMoorhead · 41-45, M
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Easygoing1234 · 46-50, MVIP
I'm sorry for your loss, and remember he would want u to go on and be happy. I know that is hard but you can do it. Your in a horrible situation but you will come through the other side. Think of the good times and laugh and smile. If u ever need to talk don't hesitate. Again God bless you
Arrow17 · F
@Easygoing1234 I don't know when I will walk out from this grief. I may go with him as well.
PatientlyWaiting25 · 46-50, F
So sorry you're having to walk this journey too. I lost my husband in August 2024 to a sudden and unexpected brain hemorrhage. I don't think grief ever goes away, it's the price we pay for loving and being loved so much. I am having more good days lately, I think, with time, we learn to build our lives around the grief so it no longer feels like it's all you know. I also tried a bereavement group and decided it wasn't for me but my church family has been a massive support, it sounds cliche but one day at a time. Hugs and prayers for you ❤ xx
Arrow17 · F
@PatientlyWaiting25 I felt God presents in the church. Holy Spirit, Jesus and my husband spirit can help me.
PatientlyWaiting25 · 46-50, F
@Arrow17 try to resist the urge to want to contact your husbands spirit. I know the longing for that but he is safe with God now. We can trust in Jesus for our comfort, he knows what it's like to suffer. He promised he's near to the broken hearted and will bind up our wounds. Hugs to you sister xx
Arrow17 · F
@PatientlyWaiting25 I didn't try to contact my husband. I saw his spirit in a white rope and light shining out of him when I was in the bar because someone was pestering me. I went to a karaoke night.
Jesus said my husband becomes my guardian angel. I have never asked his spirit and soul to come back on the earth. It isn't my decision. It was Father in heaven given him permission to watch me.
Matthew 22:29-30, 32 NIV
[29] Jesus replied, “You are in error because you do not know the Scriptures or the power of God. [30] At the resurrection people will neither marry nor be given in marriage; they will be like the angels in heaven.
[32] ‘I am the God of Abraham, the God of Isaac, and the God of Jacob’? He is not the God of the dead but of the living.”
Luke 20:34-38 NIV
[34] Jesus replied, “The people of this age marry and are given in marriage. [35] But those who are considered worthy of taking part in the age to come and in the resurrection from the dead will neither marry nor be given in marriage, [36] and they can no longer die; for they are like the angels. They are God’s children, since they are children of the resurrection. [37] But in the account of the burning bush, even Moses showed that the dead rise, for he calls the Lord ‘the God of Abraham, and the God of Isaac, and the God of Jacob.’ [38] He is not the God of the dead, but of the living, for to him all are alive.”
Jesus met Moses and Elijah. Moses died a long time ago before Jesus was born.
Matthew 17:1-8 NIV
[1] After six days Jesus took with him Peter, James and John the brother of James, and led them up a high mountain by themselves. [2] There he was transfigured before them. His face shone like the sun, and his clothes became as white as the light. [3] Just then there appeared before them Moses and Elijah, talking with Jesus. [4] Peter said to Jesus, “Lord, it is good for us to be here. If you wish, I will put up three shelters—one for you, one for Moses and one for Elijah.” [5] While he was still speaking, a bright cloud covered them, and a voice from the cloud said, “This is my Son, whom I love; with him I am well pleased. Listen to him!” [6] When the disciples heard this, they fell facedown to the ground, terrified. [7] But Jesus came and touched them. “Get up,” he said. “Don’t be afraid.” [8] When they looked up, they saw no one except Jesus.
Maybe your husband was with you all the time and you didn't realise it.
Jesus said my husband becomes my guardian angel. I have never asked his spirit and soul to come back on the earth. It isn't my decision. It was Father in heaven given him permission to watch me.
Matthew 22:29-30, 32 NIV
[29] Jesus replied, “You are in error because you do not know the Scriptures or the power of God. [30] At the resurrection people will neither marry nor be given in marriage; they will be like the angels in heaven.
[32] ‘I am the God of Abraham, the God of Isaac, and the God of Jacob’? He is not the God of the dead but of the living.”
Luke 20:34-38 NIV
[34] Jesus replied, “The people of this age marry and are given in marriage. [35] But those who are considered worthy of taking part in the age to come and in the resurrection from the dead will neither marry nor be given in marriage, [36] and they can no longer die; for they are like the angels. They are God’s children, since they are children of the resurrection. [37] But in the account of the burning bush, even Moses showed that the dead rise, for he calls the Lord ‘the God of Abraham, and the God of Isaac, and the God of Jacob.’ [38] He is not the God of the dead, but of the living, for to him all are alive.”
Jesus met Moses and Elijah. Moses died a long time ago before Jesus was born.
Matthew 17:1-8 NIV
[1] After six days Jesus took with him Peter, James and John the brother of James, and led them up a high mountain by themselves. [2] There he was transfigured before them. His face shone like the sun, and his clothes became as white as the light. [3] Just then there appeared before them Moses and Elijah, talking with Jesus. [4] Peter said to Jesus, “Lord, it is good for us to be here. If you wish, I will put up three shelters—one for you, one for Moses and one for Elijah.” [5] While he was still speaking, a bright cloud covered them, and a voice from the cloud said, “This is my Son, whom I love; with him I am well pleased. Listen to him!” [6] When the disciples heard this, they fell facedown to the ground, terrified. [7] But Jesus came and touched them. “Get up,” he said. “Don’t be afraid.” [8] When they looked up, they saw no one except Jesus.
Maybe your husband was with you all the time and you didn't realise it.
CreyvinMoorhead · 41-45, M
