I truly understand and I am sorry

It doesnt have to be a death that separates you from a spouse. My wife is in care with dementia. And it has reached the point where I have completely lost who she was. But she is still here and I still owe who she used to be all the love and loyalty she ever deserved, and I feel the need to visit her most days, even though she can be verbally aggressive at times. Although older, I would love to "move on" but I cant. I need to stay close..Abandoning her after 50 years is just not an option..😷

Im a widow also and if you want to talk im here

Hugs

I'm sorry for your loss, and remember he would want u to go on and be happy. I know that is hard but you can do it. Your in a horrible situation but you will come through the other side. Think of the good times and laugh and smile. If u ever need to talk don't hesitate. Again God bless you

sorry 😐

I'm sorry for your loss and your pain.

I am so very sorry for you pain .I wish I could help but I understand no one really can you must grieve one day at a time

So sorry you're having to walk this journey too. I lost my husband in August 2024 to a sudden and unexpected brain hemorrhage. I don't think grief ever goes away, it's the price we pay for loving and being loved so much. I am having more good days lately, I think, with time, we learn to build our lives around the grief so it no longer feels like it's all you know. I also tried a bereavement group and decided it wasn't for me but my church family has been a massive support, it sounds cliche but one day at a time. Hugs and prayers for you ❤ xx

Regardless of probate, you really must pack that backpack of your's and walk away from it all. Nothing will proceed without you, nor will you hinder the process by leaving.